Which girl do i have a better chance with?

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MonsterGuy
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07 Jun 2014, 8:04 pm

Girl A: My on-and-off again friend from part of 8th and all of 9th grade, and we don't go the the same school anymore (9th grade just ended) and I found her on facebook and sent her a friendly message along with a friend request. She's 14, I'm 15.
Girl B: My cousin's cousin, who I was once friends with on facebook but since then her parents and older brother didn't allow it. She's 12, I'm 15. The only thing I lookd forward to in going to my brother's school was seeing her lovely face.
Girl C: The imam of our community's daughter, and I hate the imam. She's 12.
Girl D: Some random girl I've barely talked to from the Turkish-American Muslim community (or hizmet community, or cemaat community) who i barely know, but have known from the community for 5 years. She's really pretty. her parents are divorced like mine.
Girl E: The girl (who's 12) who i ued to be obsessed with (but not that much) and I scared her family because I kept pursuing her against their wishes.
Girl D: my childhood friend who moved away 2 years ago, I mostly lust for her. We stopped being friends even before she moved. I told her I liked her and she got mad cause she's Muslim.
Pick one.



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07 Jun 2014, 8:08 pm

12

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07 Jun 2014, 8:14 pm

MonsterGuy wrote:
Pick one.


No, Try talking to people and getting to know them yourself.



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07 Jun 2014, 8:14 pm

the difference between 12 and 15 is like a generation. go for girl A, who might have something in common with you.



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07 Jun 2014, 8:33 pm

Um...and you're in the US.

You know, someone should be getting in touch with your parents and someone at your school district to let them know you have this problem with obsessing over sixth-graders. This isn't the first time you've mentioned it, and I am betting right now that either something bad is going to happen or has already happened.

Mods, is there any sort of legal responsibility here?



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07 Jun 2014, 9:31 pm

I don't think it is illegal if it is within 3 years. I think that is the law in most states.



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07 Jun 2014, 9:37 pm

None if they find out you have feelings for a nine year old.


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07 Jun 2014, 9:59 pm

MonsterGuy wrote:
I told her I liked her and she got mad cause she's Muslim.


:?



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08 Jun 2014, 1:27 am

wowiexist wrote:
I don't think it is illegal if it is within 3 years. I think that is the law in most states.


If he himself is like 15 max pretty sure it is indeed a 3 year thing. In my state age of consent for all of this is 16 even with an adult(barring authority figure) so it does vary..But yeah i had simialr thoughts..But if he is a teenager himself it makes sense. it is said men mature at a slower rate then women soooo would make sense depending.

That said just posting this tidbit makes ME feel skeevy LOL.



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08 Jun 2014, 2:03 am

Even if it is legal, 12 is too young for 15. No parent will allow their 12 year old daughter to date a 15 year old. I have a 13 year old daughter; I wouldn't let her anywhere near you.

So. The only one I think you have any chance with is the first, the 14 year old.

If you still like the other girls when you have both grown up some more, then you consider asking them out. Give it at least until they start high school.

And watch out for that 18th birthday; that limits you under the law a lot.


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08 Jun 2014, 6:08 am

You have a better chance using only one thread

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp6023098 ... t=#6023098

That was your original thread.

Any further reposts(4 and counting) will lead to you not being able to discuss this topic here.