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Aspie3141592653589
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23 May 2014, 4:25 pm

Ok a girl said they liked me. Someone overheard and asked if they wanted to date me then the girl said no not like that. They are complimenting me and saying I am the nicest person... although I don't like them :oops:



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23 May 2014, 4:31 pm

I really don't get what you mean. I'm sorry.

Are the people saying the girl only likes you as a friend, rather than a boyfriend?



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23 May 2014, 10:23 pm

If a girl says they like you, it could mean that they want to date you. But it doesn't have to. They could just like you as a friend. My suggestion is, progress further into the relationship and see how it goes. However, the key thing to not do is to never ask if you are in the friend zone. The best advice would be to not even ask her to be your girlfriend. Believe me, I've done that so many times, and not one of them has turned into a date. Instead, look for signs that say she is interested. Really, the only sure sign that tells you that you're in a relationship is if you've already kissed each other (this strategy works ALMOST all the time), unless it's in a "friendly" setting.

Just remember that the best relationships start with two people as friends; hence the terms boyfriend and girlfriend. And one last note: Appearance isn't everything. I learned that one the hard way myself.



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24 May 2014, 2:48 am

I don't think kissing means you're her bf, I've kissed a few girls before non of which became my gf.



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24 May 2014, 12:44 pm

I don't like her... and besides school ended yesterday.
I don't want her to like me or to be my friend (even though it would be one of the few).



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24 May 2014, 6:09 pm

Aspie3141592653589 wrote:
I don't like her... and besides school ended yesterday.
I don't want her to like me or to be my friend (even though it would be one of the few).


then don't talk to her

problem solved


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