I went through a breakup that is hard to deal with

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I had a girlfriend for three years and it felt like she understood me. In the end I was surprisingly mistaken. It is hard to finally connect with someone only to have it end. I am having a difficult time coping. Since our breakup ( she cheated on me and left me for someone less...complex ) I can't stop thinking about my ex. I have been depressed and miss the fun person that I became when I didn't have to feel so lonely. I am new to this site and sharing my story because there seems to be so many genuinely kind people that post here; very understanding people. I have a hard time opening up about how I feel but I hope that will change as I spend more time here. Thank you for reading.

Nice to be a member here. I think I am amongst good people.

hiya there welcome to the club rest assured there is more than one fish in the sea. you will find somebody else suitable in this world of 7+ billion souls.

Going through a breakup is harder when you weren't the one wanting to break up is my personal opinion. But it makes you stronger over time and there are a lot of people in this world. Just give yourself time to meet them.

Welcome on board, sorry about the circumstances behind it. Depression is not an easy thing to push through, I know a couple of moves you can throw against the depression.

Welcome to the club.
The drinks are to the left. Careful, someone probably spiked the punch.


Really though. That's what happened to me. She and I were together for two and a half years before I found out she had hooked up with my best friend behind my back (I only found out a month later, when he finally decided he felt bad and told me). Didn't talk to either of them for another year and a half, until she ditched him and found someone else in the same way.

I still cringe when I hear her name (regardless of who or what it's referencing), but the pain is gone now.

Welcome to WrongPlanet.