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Ok so has anyone else gone form Hypersexual to bordering on Asexual? And if so were you able to go back?

And some history about me...When i was younger i was VERY hyper sexual though a virgin for MANY years..I was homeschooled and not even AROUND female around my age as a teenager..

And so come my insanely high jacking off rate and i eventually got health issues(diabetes) that came out after some pain in that region..Which i had tested monogrammed and more nothing(i am a guy go figure they do it for men LOL)..And yeah i lost my virginity last year at 26(big regrets to who could have lost it to my dream woman but sadly i listened to words not actions..told her she had to SAY something)..And yeah.

I actually ahve off and on ED extreme anxiety about sex and even my hormones are off(lower testosterone oth in aount and lower then estrogen).

So i was wondering has anyone else been through this and what did you do?

I feel pathetic about it because sex seems so central these days and i really did used to crave it..While now simple cuddling can make me happy. And it seems to make women not like me or think i have no interest(irony being i also over utilize self control).

Nope i have felt hypersexual from the get go!

FYI, this should have been posted in the Adult Austim Issues forum.

I sort of changed. I was hyper as a teen due to a high sex drive & OCD with porn & masturbation that played off of my high drive. I didn't really desire to have sex thou & got so frustrated with the urges & OCD that I became alittle antisexual & thought I was asexual because didn't desire to have sex at all due to all the frustration. I took medication to specially reduce my drive for abit so I could have a break. I gradually made peace with some things, got on medication for OCD & started medication that had side-effects of reducing my drive but not for the specif purpose of reducing my drive. I never had sex till I got my current girlfriend & I like it OK but it's not a high priority to me or her & I don't mind not doing it for a while & we don't do it that often so it works.

Yep, gone through stuff like that.

In the moment I thought there was something wrong with me.. like medically wrong, and I asked my doc about it. He assured me there wasn't anything physically wrong with me and it was very likely stress induced and would change again over time. He was right and it did.

Having these sexual ups and downs is a pretty typical ASD thing. It's not really anything to be too concerned about. In hindsight, it really isn't anything to worry much about and I've just sorta rolled with the punches as with anything else.

I still have ups and downs w/ sexual desire and so on, but not anywhere near as extreme as I have in the past when AS symptoms were stronger. Now it's a much smoother roller coaster ride w/ lower peaks and valleys. Most of the smoothing out has been from reducing AS symptoms, but there must also be a component of age and maturity to it as I tend to think/feel less about sex and more about a potential long term relationship in the future. But that's also somewhat typical of the sexual life cycle of being gay, too.

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