Something helpful for the virgins here

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NT's may not be able to think like this but I myself think It's helpful for virgin aspies to think that other aspies have had sex so It's not a milestone they have to complete in order to have a good life and I don't think those aspies sought for it either, just took it as it came, no prostitutes, no slu*ty friends etc.

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The virgin thing seems to be a real problem. Perhaps a virgin meet-up weekend in Las Vegas would alleviate the issue. Remember, "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas."

I think that the idea of a "virgin weekend" in vegas would be a bad idea, who knows if the people will find each other attractive. Also if two people decide to have their wicked way with no strings attached then a danger exists that while one might view it as a one night stand the other would want more and come away either damaged or become a major pest for the less willing one.

In all it sounds like a bad idea

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Diagnosed under the DSM5 rules with autism spectrum disorder, under DSM4 psychologist said would have been AS (299.80) but I suspect that I am somewhere between 299.80 and 299.00 (Autism) under DSM4.

I am glad that the vegas deflowering meet up was a joke, the problem is that the nature of AS makes it hard for people to work out what is a joke / sarcasm. Perhapes it would be best if you wrote a joke like this

<joke>What did the X say to Y</joke>

or

<sarcasm>Oh what a good idea</sarcasm>

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Health is a state of physical, mental and social wellbeing and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity I am not a jigsaw, I am a free man !

Diagnosed under the DSM5 rules with autism spectrum disorder, under DSM4 psychologist said would have been AS (299.80) but I suspect that I am somewhere between 299.80 and 299.00 (Autism) under DSM4.

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Except for syphillis, but what's bad about little souvenirs.

I second the first reply to this thread.

Losing one's virginity is too highly valued.

When I lost it, I felt good and everything--but I didn't gain new insights or anything.

It was really anticlimactic; I had expected so much!

Now my advice: save it for the right person.

Cling to your own highest values and never trade yourself for a trinket.

Don't worry about losing your virginity, find someone who loves and accepts you for whatever kind of person you are... If you have trouble meeting people in your own culture you can look outside it and explore the world. I exclusively date Eastern Asians.

[quote="FanDe"]Don't worry about losing your virginity, find someone who loves and accepts you for whatever kind of person you are... If you have trouble meeting people in your own culture you can look outside it and explore the world. I exclusively date Eastern Asians.[/quote

It depends on where you meet East Asians f.ex if they're born/raised in a "non-yellow" country they'll act like typical residents in that country.

I meant that the aspies who lost their virginity probably didn't rush, I didn't do it and I accepted that my last ex didn't want it after some weeks, not everyone can lose it easy either it depends on the type you are and what view you have on sex.