Is anyone in an Aspie/Aspie realation ship?

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Just wondering if and how it works. I have had, for the most part, screwed all my past ones up . Your F... or I can't handle this anymore come to mind. Usually the door closes at this point. Real door, no metaphore. Nice rhyme. I am asking if I should just relagate myself to being single?
It's just every now and then I remeber having sex. But then we talk and then they ask me how I feel..... I don't know, dammit!! ! LOL

I'm not now. The Missus is NT, but quite nice. Looking back though, I wonder about several women I dated ... They may well have been ASpie, but didn't know it. (This would have been 20 years ago, or so.) Like they say, opposites attract, and the reason the dating relationship didn't work out was prolly because we were both so unsure of our emotions.

Thanks for your reply prof. Looking back myself I see brilliant women. All quite, well, f...ed. but clever, sounds familiar? You have the best time in the sack, as it were, with crazy women!! lol .............No disrespect ment to the ladies.

If online counts.

Yes, I am in a happy relationship.

I've always been in AS/NT. He's the emotional, nuturing one, although very intellectual. I couldn't imagine being in AS/AS. It would be like roommates with benefits to me. Having been in AS/NT, I'd probably just leave that relationship because I wouldn't perceive it as a relationship. Also, I like order, but I'm not the one who brings it to our house. If I was in AS/AS, it would probably be chaos in the environment and I would completely freak out and move. Last, I'd have to get a personal assistant and cook right off the bat. They would probably talk too much and drive me nuts. Right behind them would be a housekeeper. There would probably be a whole list. Hiring them and telling them what to do would be enough to put me over the edge. I think I'll stick to AS/NT. It works out well for me and gives his OCD self something to do.

I have been in both an AS/NT relationship and an AS/AS relationship. I am not currently in any relationship right now.

My first relationship (the AS/NT one) was dominated with my girlfriend cheating on me. This relationship lasted almost 2 years.

My AS/AS relationship lasted just over 3 years. The big issues in this relationship were her being clingy and needy, and when she came down to Texas to visit me last year (the relationship was long-distance) she wanted to leave a baseball game during the 7th inning, and I wanted to stay for the whole game. My aunt and uncle took her home, while everyone else stayed for the rest of the game. She and I split up a few months later, but it wasn't related to AS. One of the issues was the distance, plus I had to focus on school.

As far as whether an AS/AS or AS/NT relationship stands a better chance of working out, I can't make an unbiased decision at this time. I would have to be in an AS/NT relationship that is devoid of cheating and manipulation before I could come to an informed conclusion on that.

Tim