Pobbles wrote:
The best mods don't apply IMO, they are chosen.
Marcia thanks for the link. I'm not able to completely emphasise with some of the sentiment there because I'm an ASD male, but I have noticed that I am treated with greater suspicion by women unless there's a woman on my arm.
If I can dare to compare this to some of the recent misogyny threads round these 'ere parts... much like the feminists here repeatedly run into the male misconception that all feminists are fascists, decent men are tarred with the same brush as sex offenders and murderers.
Annoying, but this is the world we live in.
Margaret Atwood wrote:
"Why do men feel threatened by women?" I asked a male friend of mine. (I love that wonderful rhetorical device, "a male friend of mine." It's often used by female journalists when they want to say something particularly bitchy but don't want to be held responsible for it themselves. It also lets people know that you do have male friends, that you aren't one of those fire-breathing mythical monsters, The Radical Feminists, who walk around with little pairs of scissors and kick men in the shins if they open doors for you. "A male friend of mine" also gives?let us admit it?a certain weight to the opinions expressed.) So this male friend of mine, who does by the way exist, conveniently entered into the following dialogue. "I mean," I said, "men are bigger, most of the time, they can run faster, strangle better, and they have on the average a lot more money and power." "They're afraid women will laugh at them," he said. "Undercut their world view." Then I asked some women students in a quickie poetry seminar I was giving, "Why do women feel threatened by men?" "They're afraid of being killed," they said.
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Of course, it's probably quite a bit more complicated than that.
You know sometimes, between the dames and the horses, I don't even know why I put my hat on.