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garen123
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18 Jan 2019, 4:31 am

what do you guys think? is it possible to be so head over heals with someone after only a few dates??

serious answers only please...
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18 Jan 2019, 1:54 pm

of course, it's called infatuation.

keep hanging out with her and see what happens!

best of luck! :heart:


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18 Jan 2019, 2:11 pm

Infatuation, or "being in love" is hormonal.

Loving someone is a choice.

They are not the same thing.



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19 Jan 2019, 12:38 am

I fell in love pretty fast with all 3 of the girlfriends I had.


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19 Jan 2019, 6:33 am

Fnord wrote:
Infatuation, or "being in love" is hormonal.

Loving someone is a choice.

They are not the same thing.


When it works out as it should, one will give the other. Just deciding to love (rather like) somebody is a friendship.