Cant get passed friend stage

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Dirtbikerider
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16 Jun 2014, 10:45 pm

Im Chad, im new to this forum. A little about me 18 years old from southern California. I have Aspergers, ADD, Anxiety and Depression. I used to be a drug addict. I cant get passed the friend stage with girls. Ive never had a girlfriend and want to lose my virginity but dont want to hook up with a hooker. I dont want to go through my whole never having a girlfriend. Im a high school dropout but im a college student with a 4.0gpa. Weird huh? I like college way more. Any help is appreciated.



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16 Jun 2014, 10:58 pm

Here's a little perspective from the far side of 40. I wish I could tell you things will work out, but I don't actually know that. Here's the good news. I know non aspies who didn't have their first girlfriend until during or after college. So relax. I never even heard the word Aspergers until I was past 30. Self knowledge helps a lot and you've got me beat by a good 12 years. I'm actually envious that you get to start your adult life so far ahead of where I was and in an era that knows so much more about the condition. Hang in there.



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18 Jun 2014, 12:28 am

StormyKnight wrote:
Here's a little perspective from the far side of 40. I wish I could tell you things will work out, but I don't actually know that. Here's the good news. I know non aspies who didn't have their first girlfriend until during or after college. So relax. I never even heard the word Aspergers until I was past 30. Self knowledge helps a lot and you've got me beat by a good 12 years. I'm actually envious that you get to start your adult life so far ahead of where I was and in an era that knows so much more about the condition. Hang in there.


Thanks stormyknight, means alot. I wish i couldve lived during the 1970s because of all the groovy music.