I have a crush on an aspie girl...

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I have a crush on this aspie girl that's in a monthly Autism/Asperger group meeting I go to. I managed to talk to her after our last meeting and we both have had similar childhood experiences (like being bullied, misunderstood, etc.) After talking we exchanged email addresses. This was only a few days ago, so no email correspondence has taken place yet.
I think she might like me, but I have no idea how to tell her that I like her.
Should I email her? If so, what should I say? If it would be better in person, what should I do/say?

Go slow. Don't tell her you like her yet. You might scare her away. Just be friendly and keep the conversation going, as you already have been.

yah.

play it slow.....vedy vedy slow.

though you should communicate with her, be friends and all that jazz.

ask her out once, see how it goes, if you both find each other mutually acceptable to the other, then consider another date within the next week or two. after three weeks of nothing, then said interest will begin to lose interest.

I wish their was an aspie girl at my school.................

Going out with her would be a hard thing to do since she lives at least an hour drive away from me. I guess I could just talk to her at our monthly meetings, but that's only once each month.
I want to email her, but I don't know what I should say. I'm not exactly sure what her interests are or what she likes/dislikes. I guess it'll be a few weeks before I get to talk to her again at our next monthly meeting.

What is the guy/girl ratio in your group. Are you sure you won´t have any competition ?

So email her, but talk to her first at next meeting. asking if you could. then proceed......cautiosuly mind ye. and just start asking basic......BASIC questions.

Never ask if the girl is single. bad mojo.