I would like to discuss attraction.

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Hello i'm new here but in the hopes of sparking a discussion on the topic of Attraction i ask you this: what do you find most attractive in a potential companion?

I am a heterosexual male aspergian and i find (cuteness) to be the most attractive quality in a potential companion but cuteness goes deeper than appearance because people are much more than physical beings there are many things that can be considered cute. Different people can perceive it in different ways. For me personally i find a female that is at least a foot shorter than me is very appealing with a fair complexion, long hair, and a fiery but gentle personality if there are any females that fit that description here don't hesitate to message me.

fiery but gentle? good luck finding that.

A foot shorter than you?!? I hope you're not 5'5".
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Im 6'2 and while it would be nice to attract the attention of such a rare creature i would really like to have a discussion on the topic as well so please do share your thoughts

Personality, intelligence, and sense of humor weigh much more heavily than physicality to me attraction-wise. As a sturdy gal. I usually don't go for the willows types...

i am in a good marriage. the thing i find most attractive about my husband besides his intelligence is his agreeableness.

agreeableness is probably the most important trait in a marriage partner. it seems every other good quality stems from agreeableness.

I totally agree quality and timing will always beat quantity and repetition when it comes to humor

Many things for that mater

I am all about that tsundere. And strangeness. Or in other words, I'm totally into that girl who wore a dinosaur hat to school every day when she was younger. Hopefully she still does, because dinosaur hats are awesome.

What I find most attractive about my girlfriend is that she understands & accepts me & is supportive or at least tries with all 3.

I find a playful personality extremely attractive.

This may be kind of strange, but the one thing that can REALLY get me off (yes, in a sexual way) for people I'd ordinarily have NO attraction to is being super good at a musical instrument (I'm a musician too). All people in my age range who's not related to me is fair game if they're that good, even if they're not visually attractive at first or they have something gross about them like smoking.

As far as "dating" kind of attraction goes...I really have no idea. I get crushes on the most random people...once I had this really intense crush on someone I couldn't stand for like two weeks. But crushes aren't really something I act on at all. As for the "not just a crush" stuff, I have to have things I really like about the person, even in a rational way, to get the crush...but it's different with each person. I don't actually know of any patterns there.

I can't stand when short women steal all the tall guys. I am really jealous of short women.

And yeah, if I want to be pedantic, I would ideally like a 6 foot 5, muscular, tanned guy with a good job, people skills and a nice face and a kind personality, but you can't have everything.