Am I obligated to email everyone in my area on OKC?

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There are too many good-looking girls on OKCupid in my area. What do I need to do? Do I actually need to email them all? And I meant "too many" as a relative statement for my area. I also never been to a date or meetup before.

whether you e-mail someone or not is entirely up to you, there's no 'right' amount of people to e-mail

The tradition is to only email those you are interested in getting to know. As far as responding to enquiries from others for whom you have no interest, either not responding or a polite "You are cute, but we don't have enough in common" is good. Signing up for the service does not obligate you to contact anyone, nor are your required to respond. Good luck!

I'm a little rusty on what types of messages I'm supposed to say, I haven't been on in a short while.

It's absolutely compulsory to e-mail literally everyone in your area who is on OK Cupid.

People without OK Cupid accounts are risking their wellbeing and freedom because there are stiff penalities for anybody who is discovered to have not e-mailed everyone in their locality who is on OK Cupid.