Bad experience with girls last night

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Last night when I went out to the bar I hanged with a group of people who I did not know all that well. One thing I noticed about last night was that all the guys there were super friendly whereas as the women didn't talk to me and were rather indifferent towards me. One guy even groped me from behind.

I rubbed up one girl the wrong way by saying "you and your boyfriend are oppossites. Some nights I go out women are much friendlier to me but last night just not the case


Why do you think sometimes guys go out of there way to be friendly to me where's girls don't talk to me.

I am a nice looking guy thick hair, slim, athletic and look like keanu reeves. Okay I am on the short side at 5'8 but still girls should chat me up.

Were you the shortest guy in the group? Just curious.

Also, humans turn to animals in such places.

I don?t know to what extent height matters, but you can definitely experience the same when you?re not the shortest guy in the group, and even being the tallest.

By the way, if a woman is indifferent towards you, and you know she?s someone?s girlfriend, why do you even care?

Isn't there some place, other than a bar/pub, where you could go? Or perhaps you could participate in the "trivia nights?" Aspies, in many cases, do well on trivia nights.

By their very nature, bar/pubs are meat markets--for both men and women. Both genders/sexes are only concerned with the physical attributes of each other.

I only go to sports bars, so I could watch the various ballgames, and play trivia. If I were single, I would never try to pick up a girl at a bar/pub, unless she was a participant in the trivia.

My advice to you would be, dont bother. People are Nutz. You could drive yourself crazy trying to figure people out under circumstances like that. Good things come to you. Find a happy place, and wait. Making people like you, and being the life of a party, is something sociopaths do. I honestly believe that the bar is one of the most senceless, useless, boring waste of money I can think of, unless you want to be around a bunch of people, and get drunk.

Have you ever asked these people what there reasoning is for going to the bar. I mean really. Like the REAL reason. Most of it is to "hang out" (sometimes you get a shoulder shrug when asking that question), get drunk, loosen up, or get laid. Maybe all those girls that go there, and do not talk just went for something to do, because that is what their friends do. It's the thing to do, and when they get there, they don't know what the f***. Maybe they need to fill up there day with more narcissistic supply. They dont care what it is, they just need more drama. They didn't get enough supply throughout the day, so they went to the bar to get more because it is easy. As a matter of fact, it is soo full of drama, that you can just sit around, listen, watch, and get your fill pritty quick.

Who know what these people think, and why they don't like you. Maybe they do and you don't see it. Maybe they go to the bar to find people to like them, and they really don't have a need to like others. Who knows? Just go do your local leagal drug ring thing, waste some money on drugs, and your local drug peddling bar tender, and have a good time.

Maybe they're gay/bi?

Maybe they're just friendly?

Maybe the girls are being equally as cold to them so they're being friendly & socializing with guys instead of being rejected by girls?

Maybe they think they appear nicer to girls if they're nice to you?

Hard to say without being there and observing first hand.

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Probably a bit of both.

Sounds like she was overly sensitive, but also that what you said was likely perceived as rude even if you didn't mean to be rude. She likely took it as a bit of an insult by saying he was friendly and she wasn't.

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