I like my best friend.....

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So I like my best friend, and before school let out we were at lunch and this other guy who is kinda sorta our friend (we eat lunch with him everyday but he kinda a jerk though not to me but he is to my other friends who eat lunch at that table lets call him s) asked him who he like and he looked me right in the eye and said "my name" knows and I'd never have a chance with her. Now whenever we get teased about how we supposedly like each other I have said that I wouldn't date him if he was the last guy on the planet I have said that many times and it was true when I said it but the teasing got me thinking and I decided I wasn't against the idea and now I kinda like him. Anyhow after that our other friend s pressured him some more and he said another one of my friends name lets call her d, then after some pushing from s, my best friend asked d out. I am close enough to d that she confided in me and she doesn't like him but doesn't want to hurt his feelings. D has no idea I like my best friend. D, my best friend, and I are all on the spectrum. My best friend cant take a hint and doesn't understand how d feels or doesn't feel about him. What should I do? Should this be posted in the adolescent section I was nervous to post here?

Since D doesn't like him then you can directly tell her the truth, if she's a good friend she'll stop dating your best friend, then you ask him out.

Everybody is different, but usually I find those on the spectrum are less inclined to freak out over open and honest discussion. It's necessary because we tend to be really bad at picking up on hints.

I would talk to the one I like, if you want to date each other, go for it. Either way, whatever D or S or X,Y and Z do is something they should work out for themselves.

Thank you!