The acceptance paradox

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I have been doing some soul searching and allot of observing of myself.

I have an acceptance problem. This make me look "love desperate"


I work for the need of acceptance of a woman so I can accept myself.

This is wrong.

I am now unfucking myself of this thought process.

I will now work on my issues before I lean on others to accept those issues.

I will no longer be hung up on my relationship status, people who are will never have a healthy relationship

that will be all ^_^

That´s good.

Wise words. Stay strong.

GREAT JOB!! Paradoxically, not putting so much emphasis on "getting a relationship" may actually draw more people to you--people are more attracted to those who are confident, not desperate, and can take care of themselves (this works for friendships as well).

And even if that doesn't happen, you'll still be happier this way. I hope things go well!

It does not happen over night, I hate being alone. Thank you diniesaur for the motivation! ^_^