I'm lusting after a Muslim girl and I'm Muslim? How do I....

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not screw this up? I'm friends with her on facebook, and I typed a message to her, she saw it, had to go to school. then went camping. i can't stop thinking about how much i want to have sex with her, even though she wears the hijab. and I want to meet up with her in the presence of a mahram (close family member or relative) but I don't know if that's such a good idea or if she'll say yes? 9by the way I DON'T intend to have sex with her). And I can't stop looking at her picture, and I can't stop looking for a response from her, even though I know she went camping. I'M ADDICTED TO FACEBOOK!! ! What do I do?

Wait till you're at least 18.

Monsterguy, for the nth time.

WP is a WESTERN forum, most users here are NOT MUSLIMS - they are either CHRISTIANS or JEWS or atheists/agnostics with limited contact with muslim and middle eastern culture.

Why are you asking muslim-specific cultural questions here? Go to some islamforums or whatever but stop asking them here.

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 23 May 2014, 6:43 pm, edited 1 time in total.

To do what? meet in person? or have sex?

What do you mean "to do what?".

He means go to Islamic forums to ask questions like "how do I tell if a Muslim girl likes me?" and so on, and so on...

Rather than coming here to ask non Muslims questions that you know darn well that they cant help you with...like "how do I tell if a Muslim girl likes me?".

Understand?

This guy must be a troll because I just can't believe any more there's a real person asking all these stupid questions and not reading/comprehending what people are telling him.

monsterguy,

it's perfectly all right to ask your questions here. this is a WORLD forum.

He is welcome to ask but the answers we give could be wrong. I'm serious, you are dealing with specific cultural norms that are very different from our own. Depending where he is from, "dating" could be much more ritualistic and prescribed than the way you may be used to. Its more of an extended dance where the steps are pre-ordained rather than invented or spontaneous and "creativity" is a potential terminator for the courting process.

Hi MonsterGuy, also just wanted to reiterate that this is a world forum, for everyone. Meeting up with the girl you like in a group, with close relatives around is definitely a good idea because that way it ensures that you aren't alone together and won't do anything you regret. Actually the idea of controlling lust is the same for any religion, and is a common young problem for young people. Check out some of these wiki tips:

http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Lust
http://thedating3ds.wordpress.com/2011/ ... e-thirsty/

Also look up tips on how not to be thirsty or overenthusiastic in dating. Most of these tips are across the board, and not relating to religion even. Best of luck.

By western I meant the language and the majority of members here are from western countries; and he demands answers from a muslim perspective:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt259057.html

The OP keeps mentioning his religion in his almost all the threads he did - even tho not everything is asking about should be related to religion.

And he will get wrong answers, like what he got in the other thread where an American member equated Saudi culture to Turkish - this forum won't be so helpful for him is he's seeking answers from an Islamic or Middle Eastern perspective.

facebook is not real life.

You are forming an obsessive attachment to someone you have no clue about.

agreed, theres something a wee bit wrong about you in general.

Im a muslim also... its actually hard to find a muslim girl to date. My suggestion is find any girl you can and throw a blanket over her...

[Thread locked as the OP was banned 2 months ago.]