18 Aug 2014, 1:40 pm
I know most folks don't agree with dating on CL. It's not all that bad--and it's what you make it. When I made this post, I have gotten up to a dozen replies (not spam) from women of all kinds: ages, singe moms, nerds, etc. I just put what I really felt in the ad. No prince charming BS or nothing like that; it was pure cut 100% me. One woman told me that my honesty is like a breath of fresh air. Not all of the women have worked out, but some, are worth getting to know more about.
I find that a woman likes a guy that knows what he wants. Even if she doesn't know what she wants. If a guy has some type of direction
about him, she'll follow the white rabbit.
Here's the post.
I have been cheated on and played on so many levels--I should despise all women by now. But y'know what I'm not gonna do that. Not all women are like that. I know this. And to brand them all like that is quite silly. Dating in general just made me more aware. I can't help it. I love women. Always have. Always will.
But enough of that sentimental stuff.
I am here to promote myself--as all us CL guys do. Here's the thing. If you have high-assed expectations then maybe this site won't 'be' for you? Or maybe it will? I don't know!
I am in my mid 20s. Still single. Never married. And no Jr.'s out there. I am actually on here to find a woman I can actually connect with! Talk for fun! And be random with. I'm not on here panhandling for p****. So please drop the "You only want my panties" act. Yes sex is awesome and fun but like I said, I'm looking for something different here. Someone different. That sex isn't solving.
I may come off as edgy but I'm not gonna sell you the "I'm the man of your dreams" BS these other thirsty guys on here do. I'm giving you 100% me. Actually I am an awesome guy. Show me to your folks. And I could make your girlfriends (even married ones) shrouded in envy! If the woman is right, I will give her the greatest sides of me. Affect you emotionally and physically. Be there when you are down and out. Make you feel downright sexy and beautiful. But I am no chump. You can tell me anything, but you'll have to show me.
I am not a fat slop.I look down and can see everything. And I am active and like to play sports. It's okay if you don't. It's just things I do. And I could definitely kick your ass in. I play video games too. Now if you kick my ass in one of those that's saying something. I'll try any new thing once. So I am not limited. I'm adaptable. I am also tricky with a pencil. I have many hobbies but I'd rather you ask about them. Okay? Good. Music? You'll be surprised. Movies? You'll be surprised. 
What am I asking of you? First of all. The materialistic women, we....won't...click. Trust me on that. I don't like selfishness and ignorance. Those things annoy the hell out of me. I am a goofy person but ignorance, racism, immaturity is just, ugh! to me. Just be you. Be yourself. Take of the mask. Talk to me as you are dammit! You can be a hopeless romantic or whatever. You just never know!
I find beauty in women that common guys don't. Not your typical ass and tits guy here. I find different traits that attract me to you physically and mentally. By reading this post alone you probably think I am not typical. Good!
Don't let me intimidate you though. If you are shy. We can definitely click. I can relate to shy folks. I'm still a bit introverted myself. Used to be very shy. But I am natural at having people warm up to me. I seriously make friends by accident more than on purpose.
I know you craigslist women have gone through some s**t! Well so have I. So reply if this rubs you in all those right places. Lol
Maybe this site will have a positive outcome? I mean. I have did the bar and club thing. Those women have no clue how unattractive they be. Sloppy drunk and all. Wow. That's the turn up life for you though.
Believe it or not these type of ads work vs the "I will be this, and that for you" kind of ads. Even women that felt they were not an ideal match for me, i.e. 40 year olds, replied just to tell me how attractive I sounded.
Maybe you can put this with an online dating profile? You never know!
