what is a perfect relationship?

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a perfect relationship is when you truly love your partner and will always be there for them 24/7 in any way possible from being together in person or if you are in a long distance relationship in life there are many ways to express your love for your partner and i know 100% i love my partner more then anything possible even if we are texting or chatting on skype via video calling those special moments make us love each other more and more as the days go by its important to stick by each other and support each other through ups and downs within our own lives thats what a real relationship should always be about i met my partner on the 17th may 2014 and it will soon be my 5 month anniversary next friday same day as my birthday i could not be anymore happier

she is everything to me

5 months a probably a little too quick personally to say you're in love unless there is just that conviction that you're in love and what most people tend to do is mix love and lust of the beauty, especially in today's society.

But still, anyone could find their half anywhere, even in the weirdest places or scenarios.

Theres always a lot to learn as the days and the months go by. Especially being in a long committed relationship more or less heading toward marriage. Relationships also have their trials and of course, if two were to overcome and to deal with it and still love, it be amazing.

Still, happy for you either way.

i can actually agree on that mate and believe me becky and i we are really happy we found each other shes changed my life just like jude changed yours

In my opinion, the perfect relationship is one in which both partners know and accept the other's imperfections, rather than one in which either party desires the "perfect partner".

The Squid concurs... We don't believe in a perfect relationship.

Well I would say it's impossible, if you mean nothing goes wrong or their will be no difficulties between a couple. We are just humans after all, not Elves or some such. You just are still on the smooth paved part. There's always rough patches, bumps and potholes, if you don't slide off the road entirely on occasion.

But enjoy the ride while its smooth, for all its worth. Good times together will help you weather the bad ones.

Hmmm?nah, perfect relationships do exist, or if not, ALMOST perfect relationships exist. What screws up perfect/near-perfect relationships is life. We can't change the fact that even if we're committed to someone, there will always be others we feel an attraction to. Given the right set of circumstances outside the boundaries of relationships, partners WILL cheat. Someone WILL pick a fight. Someone WILL gain weight, or grow old, or become physically or mentally ill.

Relationships probably all start out perfect. It's just when you get into a relationship that some guy she used to crush on finally starts noticing her that you start noticing the first chinks or dents. So you do what any guy would do?you get jealous because some other guy is moving in on her and taking up her time. So you confront her about it. Of course, SHE doesn't think there are any problems, and now all of a sudden YOU are insecure or have trust issues. And you're like, no, I don't, but I don't want you hanging around that guy. Which, of course, makes you manipulative and controlling. Now she WANTS to be with this other guy, and you just gave her an excuse to dump you and start going out with him. Which she promptly does.

And even if you don't go there, well, you never say anything about them hanging out together, so it's obvious you don't care. So she cheats on you and eventually dumps you for the guy anyway.

You might have the perfect relationship. But you don't have the perfect life. Don't think that life won't catch up with your relationship eventually. Rather than looking for the perfect relationship and keeping it that way, look for something that will stand the test of time. I'm married to someone who at one time had a pattern of cheating on me?and there was cheating going on with me as well. We put that all behind us once we got married. I'm fortunate to be with someone who allows me to stand my ground if things go in an objectionable direction. I recall an old flame who came sniffing around, and I put an immediate stop to it. Not that many women honestly care about their relationship quite enough to allow their partners that position in their life, so I'm very lucky.

You can't stop life, and because of that you can't stop cheating, breakups, or fights. What's important is how you respond to it and the kinds of freedoms you allow each other in the relationship.