I am the number one candidate.
I have had over a decade of unrequited love total for two different girls, one for most of my early 20's. What a waste of time that was! The thing about it was that she showed all of the signs of interest for me, in the early parts of my failure to have a relationship with her. She would laugh with me, talk with me among friends, and even touch my arm etc... I just never made a move of any kind. This was due to my extreme love shyness. Eventually, she got frustrated and fed up with me, and married someone else just to get me to leave her alone. Very sad situation. I don't know why I couldn't express my feelings or talk to her about it. I even asked if she hated me several times, and with sadness in her eyes and voice, she said "no, I don't hate you." To this day it still hurts deeply.
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