Need a translator, female preferably NT

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OK, So my week last week started with an Old friend.

She seemed to me more affection to me then her avarge norm. (Such as hugging.) I asked her why and she answered in a emotional way, her boy-friend dumped her and she thought I am the kind of person that will not think much from a hug and not shove her off. <-- Is correct to her.

So I had to nullify that, her friend also said that we would be a good couple. I asked her about this, she said, " Well she ask me if I like you and I was like, Well.... I don't know any more." <-- When she is excited she goes full fledged into the; "likes" "O' My God" ect.

I asked her if she is open for the movies on Sunday she said yes(Mother's day). Later that I day I asked her on the phone if we are going as friends, She said "...umm(Thinking) yes." Then trough out that whole conversation she took every time posable to say: Thats what I like about you, Your a sweet heart, Your HUGE.

She is like the only person I can detect changes in the pitch of voice. So I decide to run a few test, and ask her if she wants to have lunch to gather( where the same age, in the same school, So it was not like it was out of any body's way) She says yes, at lunch we did not talk much(thats ok talked to her well... read on). On the walk back to her class(I am a huge sporter of chilvery) we talked. I took advantage of my budy walking by and I just walk by her leaving and talk to him(Starting to see a bad move) She said, "Bye..." and I just wave and nod.

That night I talked to her on the phone and asked if I detected any disapontment when I did not give her a hug good bye. She said, "yes." Thats when I stated that I have notecetd more affection(First paragrapher).

I then decide to give one more test, I ask her for advice on how to pick up some one. I did not notace a change in her mode( We had lunch this day and she left me[Revenge?]) Our call this time was "short" 30mins. I called her back later, and ask her why she says, Womanly cramps(So I could no longer talk to my brother's friend the girl pro, he is like 13 but hes a playa)[Not like this is a booty call I want a long lasting relationship].O' when I called back she was much more depressed(as if I said some thing )


After I get a sign of affection she shakes it off.

One last time over the span of 5 days we talked for, 293 mints 4.88 hours. But on one day I was busy all day and talk to her for about 10 minits(unlogged). At the end of our phone time today she said, that we will do lounch agan and she will come and hang out with me in the morning(25-30 minits to talk)

By reading this would you say that she is attarcted to me, she said we are going as friends about 20 minits into our 4 hours.

Ill update daily.

Yeah she wants to be more than friends, that's for sure. But watch out; she's on the rebound and is much more likely to break your heart than she would be if she hadn't just broken up with her boyfriend. She's probably a little apprehensive about changing the nature of your relationship because she doesn't want to lose you as a friend if and when you break up... and she should be apprehensive about that. It's not unlikely to happen. If you do want to date her anyway, you will have to fix the damage you did when you asked her for advice on how to pick someone up.

Well back in 8th grade, 2 years ago we dated for 3 weeks. Nothing realty special that was pre- Knowing how to talk to other/new people. We broke up, and I became quite un-confertable around her, so I avoided her... for like a year. So that had some major damage. She says that she likes that I am strait forward, so I'll ask her one the phone(don't want to force her to say somthing becuse she is around other people) If it bothered her, then Ill tell her the resonating behind it.

she likes you

but as a woman myself... i would venture to say she doesn't like "tests"

i don't think it's very nice to test her by asking her how to pick up someone ELSE...

just relax and have fun

BEWARE all she wants is sex!! !

I talked to her on the phone for about 1.5 hours, 1:30. I asked her if she was sure that she wanted to go as friends, she said"uhmmm.... its for the best". She also was talking to her mom, whell I was on the phone, she said that she did not want a boy-friend because guys suck.


In case I have yet to say it we are both 16.

hmmm....mate.

I'd say you have a good possiblity.............BUT.

Here are a few things you might wanta change.

1) stop testing her....bad mojo. I know you have A.S. but I don't know that many males out there who do the wacky things you do.

(Yojez.....please, this here is a civilized convo.)

Take it naturally and all that jazz, this may be hard for you because of your A.S, but work over it and out of it. you're 16 for petes sake, I didn't have my first girlfriend til I was 17..

Not to worry mate.

Trust the Doc.

Ok, guys Ill stop testing her... it was just so I could read her emotions, and be more positive with my readings.

Ill just... well like Doc said, roll with it, see where I end up... who knows it could be fun!

Read her emotions? be more positive with your feelings? What are you C Freaking 3PO? You go about things naturally and unintuitivly and stuff like that. You wanna get to know someone better, you spend time with them, you get to know them better, you ask them about their lives and how they're doing and all that jazz, you don't turn love into a scientific experimentation.

course right now, you do have one thing going against you and I'm sure that most females on this here board will agree, is asking her for advice on how to pick up females...uh uh. bad mojo.........even if you're both sixteen, you act more like a kid sometimes, with what I've read about what you've said, you're not ready mate. you need more time to grow first.

I know this sounds like I'm insulting you, I'm not, I'm here to help you understand, but at the same time make sure that you know that you did a few things wrong.