What kind of behavior is this?

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A woman at work was talking with me; while she was talking with me she pulled out the neck of her shirt and looked inside down at her breasts. Was this nothing except rude behavior or was there somthing else behind this? I don't have any feelings for her although I think she is attractive. I am puzzled by this and I don't know to read this. Any inputs/insights would be welcomed.

Most likely she thought there might be something down there as she felt an irritation or something.

Lol, I know what you're on about, I've witnessed some women doing this when they pass men on the streets they find creepy (aka physically unattractive), it's to make sure those guys don't catch a glimp of their breasts because who knows they might go following these women because they perv over them in the worst case scenario.

Highly unlikely I think in your situation unless she's unfriendly to you or very distant.

This.

I... don't know. I don't think it was flirting or anything related to the context of the conversation.

a few options here. something might have been bothering her as said.

another option is that she cought you staring and thought there was something on her chest or vest, so she looked for it.

third option is that she is interested in you, and she pulled down her shirt to give you a better look of "the goods"

it could have been flirting since, really, it happens outside of conversations, the actual topic is irrelevant for the occurance of flirting

For the same reason why I scratch my balls because something is irritating my skin there.

It doesn't mean that I want a girl to suck it.

I more think it was flirting, since she was already talking to you and was comfortable checking her stuff in front of you. But, it could have been any of the other things everyone mentioned.

This. I wouldn't even go so far as to call it "rude behavior"; sometimes people just need to look at their breasts. It's nothing you need to worry about.

Maybe she had an item in her bra? I know a lot of females where I live that hide things in their bras. Or maybe she was just itchy?

I guess what the other people have said.

Seems unclear at this point so I would assume your best bet would be to keep talking to her and be observational. IMO, VERY inconclusive.