There is a guy who is special to me at the moment that I am interested in that lives in the same unit complex as me he lives in the unit one door away from me. He came to my door one day out of the blue and said that I have always been nice to him and kind and gave him the time of day when no one else would, he was upset that no one else in the unit complex would speak to him not even his nextdoor neighbour who avoids him like the plague and that I was the only person who spoke to him and accepted him for him. I was really quiet shocked and surprised I've never had anyone just come upto my door and say that before. Ever since then he and I have become good friends with the same interests and hobbies, gaming, Science fiction, movies, tv shows such as The Game Of Thrones, The Walking Dead and Agents of Shield.
He has been through alot though and has been treated really badly by women he is on antidepressants and has little or no trust in anyone. Its taken over a year for him to even trust me enough to even let me in his unit and sit down and just hang out with him which has only been happening for over a month instead of standing in front of his door speaking to him for a half an hour its now 4 to 5 hours sitting in his unit. He still wont open up though and has told me that he is a very private person who doesn't talk much about his private life to anyone and wont say what happened but whatever happened to him has drastically affected his life, his ability to make new friends and get into relationships. All I can do is be there for him he is a genuinely nice guy with a big heart and a great sense of humour who makes me laugh when I'm down.