I'm a 27 year old virgin

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The reason why I didn't have steady work till now and I'm considered odd by many girls. I heard of a girl that's 25 and a virgin just like me. I want to not be odd. I was told once not to be myself, but to be the best version of myself. What do u guys and girls consider odd?

Sorry about the grammer i another thought crossed my mind on this forum.

Honestly man if I were you I'd set my standards low. Go for a girl that's insecure about her sexuality herself, could be another virgin or maybe someone that's overweight, or just not all that appealing. Chances are if she's not real sought after she'll be more likely to take your bait plus you'll have the added advantage of feeling more confident in bed.

Do you drink? Almost every one night stand I've had I've either been drunk or under the influence of something else or both. I don't see any problems with that either. I don't think I would have been near as lucky if I didn't have the drug or alcohol induced confidence and anxiety relief. Also it's gonna be way easier for you to get with a girl that is drunk herself....probably wont be the best sex but hey it'll get your foot in the door.

or you could take the long and tedious route of finding a girlfriend that matches or accepts your "awkwardness"....which (no offense) hasn't suited you so well so far.

odd...forget about it dude. Don't even worry yourself thinking about what other people think is odd. I don't know how you act or whatever in public but confidence will trump oddities for the most part, given you are not one of those few people that are just extremely weird.

There's tons of eccentric and weird people who still have sex lives. I really think confidence is so huge determining factor in the matter.

In my admittedly warped and dull understanding, the right direction is to accept you'll stay a virgin for life (and beyond, because you won't lose your virginity as a corpse) and not make any attempt whatsoever to get to know a woman or to share any intimate situation with her, because this necessarily means you're abusing her and thus being a horrible person. Keep your interaction with women at the absolute minimum possible, because they can tell you desire them and it pesters them, at best.

Only men who have already lost their virginity---and, preferably, who have continued to have regular sex ever since---can rightfully keep having sex. Women can always if they want to, of course.

Another thing I should add that no one ever talks about around here: I could have mistaken for a virgin in the sack every time I had sex for 5 years after the fact. You don't just loose your virginity and become a god under the sheets. It takes a lot of sloppy, crappy, sometimes flat out embarrassing moments before you can feel confident in bed.

I'm 27 and haven't been a virgin for over a decade and I still learn something new every time I meet someone new. I'm still learning things about myself in bed (what I like don't like), you probably wont ever know it all.

So don't buy into this "I'm a virgin" garbage, because truth is most girls wouldn't know whether its your 1st time or your 2nd, or 3rd...we all blossom sexually at different points. For me it was a lot about giving up my shyness around sex, opening up and asking what they like when I didn't know, and making sure I wasn't afraid to let them know what I liked.

Here's something I've never shared with anyone: When I was with my first girlfriend I lied and told her I wasn't a virgin. I wanted her to think I was 100% confident even though I wasn't. I've hooked up with that same girl recently and she still hasn't second guessed what I told her 13 years ago, wasn't the truth. And honestly I feel like she still hasn't gotten much better after all this time....I still don't think she's "blossomed" yet.

I'm doing what I call shedding skin I've been doing for the past 8 years so I think everything will work out. moving to denver was a great breakthrough

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