33 signs a girl DOESNT LIKE YOU

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1. She doesn't laugh at your jokes. Laughing is a form of flirting.

2. She is clearly uncomfortable with physical contact.

3. When you are talking to her, she keeps backing away.

4. She doesn't like hugging you.

5. You don't know who her friends are.

6. She is too busy to hang out with you.

7. Shes really vague about planning to hangout.

8. She touches her hair in short jerky motions.

9. She likes someone else.

10. She does not go out of her way to talk to you.

11. She acts more serious than silly around you.

12. She doesn't seem to care that much about your life.

13. You're always the one to initiate conversation

14. She ignores you or doesn't notice you.

15. She talks about other guys that she does like.

16. She says that you're a good friend or emphasizes friendship in a conversation.

17. She says I deserve you and someday you're gonna find a girl thats really good for you.

18. She only calls you when she needs something like some money or a ride etc...

19. She turns you down claiming shes not looking for a boyfriend or doesnt have time for one.

20. She never wants to talk on the phone, only texting.

21. She doesn't keep the conversations going.

22. She takes hours to respond to texts, sometimes she doesn't text at all.

23. She looks uncomfortable when you flirt with her.

24. When you look at her, she doesn't smile or stare back. She looks at you like wtf do you want?

25. She barely likes any your statuses or photos on Facebook.

26. When you hang out with her, she never focuses all of her attention on you.

27. She never invites you anywhere to events or parties.

28. She is not over her ex. When you're with her, she talks about her ex all the time.

29. When she talks about her future, she never mentions you as a part of her future.

30. She acts like she really likes you then she vanishes for a few days then she comes back and pretends she likes you again, then she dissapears again. She may have a boyfriend or husband and shes not really interested in you, just using you for sex or something

31. She never wants to kiss you.

32. If you think she isn't in to you, then she's probably not.

33. You openly talk about your obsession with farting.

At least if 33 is the reason for 1-32, you have an easy fix

(As long as you don't change from talking about it to demonstrating it.)

These will give you a pretty good idea of her interest level, but they aren't always true, all the time. Keep in mind, people are all different, and express interest (or a lack of it) in different ways.

The most accurate way to read someone's body language, is to observe them regularly, to get a "baseline" of how they act around different types of people, then compare those actions to how they act around you.

Exactly. For example, these two are normal behaviour for me:

20. She never wants to talk on the phone, only texting.
25. She barely likes any your statuses or photos on Facebook.

So if anyone was to judge me by those, they'd have to assume I wasn't interested, which may not be the case. So you have to allow for individual differences. There are a few that I think would be pretty safe bets though:

6. She is too busy to hang out with you.
14. She ignores you or doesn't notice you.
19. She turns you down claiming shes not looking for a boyfriend or doesnt have time for one.
24. When you look at her, she doesn't smile or stare back. She looks at you like wtf do you want?
32. If you think she isn't in to you, then she's probably not.

i was told to like her post to show interest, she hasn't liked any of mine. sister said she seemed interested in me in person. o.O
I just stopped posting stuff again. i go back in forth on removing her. just want a end be it dating or moving one, this who does she like me or not for 3 months is stressful. sorry for off topic,

as for texting isn't that mostly normal now a days?

14. Isn't a safe bet I have had girls ignore me before, then later found out they really liked me. Go figure.

Yes, fair point. I was actually going to bold "doesn't notice you" in that one, and "turns you down" in 19 to highlight the main clues there. Definitely if she doesn't notice you, she doesn't like you...as she hasn't even noticed you

Maybe she is just pretending to not to notice you, because she secretly really likes you.

This is very specific. Lol

I guess I was talking it too literally, that she actually hasn't noticed you (or noticed you more than a causal glance, meaning you aren't worth taking notice of, to her). Otherwise isn't it that she's ignoring you?

If she secretly really likes you but is ignoring you, she deserves for you to assume she doesn't like you...what a silly game!

/grumpyoldlady

It depends on your age. Like when you're in your preteens and we act like we completely hate you it's usually because we really like you.
Unless, of course, we really do completely hate you.

33 signs a girl doesn't like you -----> She's not trying to spend more time with you. The End.

I have never ever met a female who doesn't do at least 2 of those, just saying.

Every female I met does at least 10 of those things...

There is only 1 good reason for her not to like you and that is...being an aspie!

Take out the pie and replace it with hole and then you'll be right.