Don't get it if teenager girls start to flirt with me.

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24 Jun 2019, 6:24 pm

OK, I'm just 51 and that's not as much for an elf and I'm looking a bit like a cute mix of prince charming, Asterix and the frog king. :wink:
Today morning a cute blonde in the bus some meters away. Most models look compared to her like owls. Came over to me grabbed the same pole I did just to be near to me, stroke her hair beyond her ears and started to flirt ... WTF? That was quite unexpected to me. I was unable to dislike her but what did she expect? That I grab her or approach her in the bus? A teenager girl not even half as old as me? Why do many women not care about the age of a guy? But I totally hate to lack empathy and get her emotional if something like this happens. :(


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24 Jun 2019, 6:31 pm

Stay away from teenage girls. If one ever does happen to flirt with you, ignore it and try to walk or move away.

Teenage girls do not want boyfriends who are in their 50’s unless there is something wrong with them.


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24 Jun 2019, 6:39 pm

Especially if she's not of the legal "age of consent."

Let me research Germany's laws pertaining to that.

They take it on a case-by-case basis. But they will probably prosecute if you're over 21, and the girl is under 16. And parents have a say-so, too. So, basically, if you want to avoid any trouble, you shouldn't have sex with somebody under 18.



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24 Jun 2019, 6:41 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Especially if she's not of the legal "age of consent."

Let me research Germany's laws pertaining to that.


Even if she isn’t, I’m not sure how such a relationship could end well..


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24 Jun 2019, 7:22 pm

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kraftiekortie wrote:
Especially if she's not of the legal "age of consent."

Let me research Germany's laws pertaining to that.


Even if she isn’t, I’m not sure how such a relationship could end well..

They get to know and care for each other?

Edit: assuming your "she isn't" means "below the age of consent."



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24 Jun 2019, 7:35 pm

Dan82 wrote:
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kraftiekortie wrote:
Especially if she's not of the legal "age of consent."

Let me research Germany's laws pertaining to that.


Even if she isn’t, I’m not sure how such a relationship could end well..

They get to know and care for each other?

Edit: assuming your "she isn't" means "below the age of consent."


I don’t see what an 18 and 51 year old could have in common. I’m just thinking back to when I was 18. 8O


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24 Jun 2019, 7:37 pm

I'd have to say this is true in the vast majority of cases.

If a girl is 17, the guy would be 3 times her age. Not really all that good.

I'm 58---and if I wasn't married, I wouldn't go after a girl of 17. I'd go after a woman, say, over 40.



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24 Jun 2019, 7:43 pm

I’m not against big age differences, but people usually have a lot of maturing to do up until their early 20’s. Anyway, it can be hard to tell how old a teenager is. If she looks young, don’t risk it!


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24 Jun 2019, 7:56 pm

Where I come from it's not that uncommon for teen girls to go for much older guys but the guys are usually at least a decade younger than you are quite_an_extreme assuming the age listed in your profile is correct. It's possible that the girl who flirted with you looked really young for her age & was a bit older. I know of some porn stars who are in their late 20s & possibly very early 30s who do a great job pretending to be teen girls cuz they really look & act the part(I won't name em). But even if that was the case, the girl who flirted with you would still be quite a bit younger than you. I've been attracted to & in romantic relationships with girls who were a bit younger than me but part of it is cuz I'm very immature for my age & didn't really have my sh!t together with life. I felt I related to them better than lots of people my own age. 1ce I reached my mid 20s, I wouldn't of considered getting in a relationship with anyone who might be underage or still in high-skewl. As to why the girl flirted with you, some women(more so with teens or women in their early 20s) get a kick out of flirting with & teasing guys. Sometimes the girls are dared to do it.


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24 Jun 2019, 8:14 pm

I haven't had a person blatantly flirt with me in years!

In fact......that has only really happened a couple of times in my life.....



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24 Jun 2019, 8:15 pm

It doesn’t happen to me very often. I never flirted with a stranger.


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25 Jun 2019, 12:22 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Especially if she's not of the legal "age of consent."

Let me research Germany's laws pertaining to that.


Even if she isn’t, I’m not sure how such a relationship could end well..


It would be probably a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship.



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25 Jun 2019, 3:37 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Especially if she's not of the legal "age of consent."

Let me research Germany's laws pertaining to that.


Even if she isn’t, I’m not sure how such a relationship could end well..


It would be probably a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship.
I agree since the OP is about 50. In my area it's not that uncommon for teen girls or women in their early 20s to go for guys more than a few years older than them. The guys tend to be gangsta wannabees who are losers who expect the woman & her family to support him. The girls tend to have "daddy" issues & the only reason her family agrees to support the guy is cuz he got her pregnant.


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25 Jun 2019, 5:10 am

It was only a flirt, and so no need to consider age difference or even legal age. I'd flirt with girls of any age, but also being in my 50s, it's pretty unusual that this happens with teenagers or even girls in their 20s nowadays.



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25 Jun 2019, 5:15 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
Stay away from teenage girls. If one ever does happen to flirt with you, ignore it and try to walk or move away.


Nah, I wouldn't do that. I'd hate to miss out on a nice flirt. And a flirt doesn't mean you want to have sex or anything else. It's just for fun most of the time.

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Teenage girls do not want boyfriends who are in their 50’s unless there is something wrong with them.


Maybe like them being ND? :wink: