It is the only such site existing. I know a girl who found her boyfriend on that site, she actually posts here as well (for privacy reasons I won't reveal her nickname, if she reads it she will respond herself if she wishes so). But for most people, there is no real use in the site as it is due to the male-female ratio being imbalanced and the geographical divide. However, the site has huge potential, but it takes time to grow. Dating sites focussing on one small segment of society need more time to get their audience than a dating site orientated at... well, basically anyone. I think Aspie Affection has big potential if the site managers keep the faith and don't let the site go. It needs more female members though and a wider geographical catchment area, maybe the site should add some languages to the menu.
PS you can always try the dating site in your own area. In Google, go to advanced search, type in your area + dating + set the domain to the URL of your dating site. That way I have browsed for local girls on MySpace a few times
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Do what Thou wilt shal be the whole of the Law.
Love is the Law, Love under Will. And...
every man and every woman is a star
(excerpt from The Book of the Law - Aleister Crowley)
"Od lo avda tikvateinu" (excerpt from the Israeli hymn)