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felinesaresuperior
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11 Mar 2015, 3:46 pm

is it typical for aspies to lose interest in a relationship? I never could keep up. dated some guys, and it was always nice at first, and then i'd get so bored and depressed. no relationship ever lasted more than a few weeks or months.

of course i know every aspie is different, and some aspies keep up better than nts. not saying it's always like that. just wondered if anyone else can relate.


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11 Mar 2015, 4:00 pm

I'm like this too.



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11 Mar 2015, 4:31 pm

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12 Mar 2015, 8:25 pm

I lose interest in people quickly.
If someone is actually relationship material, I will have confirmed that they are one of the rare few who can hold my interest over a long period of time.


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12 Mar 2015, 10:52 pm

I get bored easily in general, not just relationships. :D With relationships, people that bore me the most are the ones that can't stimulate me intellectually.



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13 Mar 2015, 12:09 am

They become my special interest.


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13 Mar 2015, 1:48 am

not for me I get overly attached to people in general. I kept loyal to a girl for over a year and were not even dating per say.