The reason of my relationship status being "frustrated."

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I'd like a little insight into this situation, if you wouldn't mind:

I've been involved with an old friend for some time. Its kind of on and off. We'll be going out for a while & things seem to be going well & we're getting closer to becoming something serious. Then, suddenly, she doesn't return my texts or anything & I hear nothing from her for weeks or months. Then, out of nowhere, she reestablishes contact.
i've tolerated this for a while. i have issues, too, so i was willing to work with her on it. i tried asking her why she'd just vanish when we were together last & she got very evasive. i'm really tired of her game. i used to have feelings for her. i really don't anymore.
i spent a lot of coin on her, too. Now, i don't think that really entitles me to much, aside from a little consideration, a little more communication.
The next time i see her will probably be the last, unless she's willing to talk about what's going on. For the most part, i think i'm right, but there's a nagging sense of me missing something because i have Asperger's. Sometimes, i wonder if between all this on/off nonsense i got downgraded from boyfriend material & put back in the bro zone where i had been for a while. Thoughts?

Yep, she's stringing you along as a "beta orbiter" because of the attention and money you give her. If she was really into you, you would be together.