recently dumpted

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hey
i just wanted to know has anyone else ever been dumped because they took stuff to literally al the time and appear not to listen to there partners? Another thing all my past boyfrineds have struggaled with is my ridgid routine and anxiety
im upset so please dont be mean i just want to learn how to change
my first boyfriend of 4 years dumped me for the same reasons and now kai has who was with me for a year and a half
how do u find someone who love s you despite of it all?x

My wife left me because she felt that I was no longer paying attention to her. Well, that and she went crazy.

I was dumped by my gf of 5 years... looking back, i consider that this, though extremely extremely painful, was overall positive because we weren't really compatible.

Four years together. I'm sure that he love(s/d) you. Nothing is forever - much as we need it to be. I was 12 years with my wife. It kills me that she's not with me. But while you're still young, enjoy your loves, and when you end up old and washed out (like me) you can concentrate on other things.

Ribbons, I am sure he will come along one day, just don't look or try too hard. The reason why I say this is because it may make you come across as desperate to the opposite sex. If that's something that people as a whole don't like, that is desperation. So just don't focus on dating at all. Works for me everytime. It can take a couple of months or even a couple of years, but it's worth it when someone decent crops up.

I'm sorry to hear about your recent break up, I know how painful that can be when people cannot accept you as you are. But there will be someone out there that will, just give it time. You look as though you are fairly young to me (like myself) as well, so you have plenty of time for the right guy to turn up. Just let your hair down and enjoy life as a free single person while you can. I did for a number of years (I think it was 2 or 3 years but they were fab).

I can't imagine really enjoying being free. It's better than being in something that's really wrong, but I need that loving and comfort of someone who's always there for me.

Just wait and enjoy things as they come. I know it feels like an eternity (it does for me - I haven't had a girlfriend yet!) but if you rush this you will either a) get exploited or b) end up with someone who plainly isn't right for you. Your time will come.

I'm doing the things I enjoy: indulging my interest in digital photography, exercising, eating good food and drinking good ale. Go and enjoy yourself. And when that person comes to you, you'll be ready for him!

Ribbons,Better to find out now than later. Realtionships are messy. I too have have a habit of taking things literaly and it cost me my marrige. Wish I knew how to change myself but, truthfuly I don't know how.

Struggling with the same dilemma on how to find someone who accepts me for who I am.
J.C.