overwelmed when attracted to someone

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27 May 2015, 5:33 pm

Do you ever find being physically attracted to someone overwelming? when I was younger, I found being attracted to other people to be a tough thing to deal with. It was very overwelming. Is that the case for you too?


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27 May 2015, 5:49 pm

I've been there, mainly in my teens. My experiences gave me a better appreciation of popular phrases like "falling head over heels" for someone. I was the sort that would almost walk into walls after catching a glimpse of the object of my affliction... Errr, I mean... Object of my affection. :D



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28 May 2015, 2:01 pm

I too had the same "problem" when I was in my teens. One girl who I had easily had the hots for in MS was already dating another guy, and I didn't know it until she explained it herself.

While in HS, another girl who I had a crush on wasn't interested in me, but she waited to explain that she was never interested in me at all until senior year.


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28 May 2015, 5:09 pm

It's not tough to deal with... when I have adequate time at home alone.



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28 May 2015, 5:31 pm

In my younger days it was but as many years have passed, I got so use to being alone that seeing attractive women was nothing new to me and the idea of me actually dating one would not even cross my mind at this point.


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