This cute girl I met

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I go to an aspergers group where there is a cute girl named Jenna. I met her two weeks ago, while we and other people were at a Chinese food restaurant. She seemed to find me funny like everyone else, and I didn't try to hard with her or anyone, just casual conversation I felt I should hold off and talk to her more.
So I have messaged her on facebook a few times, I got her number on the second time. She seems a bit rushed as in she seems quick to end the conversation over facebook, is this a sign she is not interested or is that just an aspergers thing. I am aware that could mean anything since everyone is different but I don't wanna waste my time trying to talk to a girl who just doesn't care.

She seems quiet while hanging out a bit too and she is in a poke war with me (which she started)

I have almost no experience about this topic, fyi.

But if someone initiates contact, that should mean that they are interested.
And the 'poke' thing is playful, so i guess it's a good sign

I think it's time to find a balance in not going to fast but fast enough to keep her interested.

But, i need to repeat that this is only my vision on this and it might be different though...

Interesting post BaneBear

She seems interested. Write her again.

she might be having similar thoughts to you about the validity of a perceived mutual attraction.
or she may just like you more platonically and not know how to express her feelings understandably.
its impossible to know.
so my advice is to keep doing what you're doing and don't assume anything about her feelings until she verifies them. if you want her to verify you may need to tell her about yours. i think its ultimately better to be honest and upfront especially with people on the spectrum since we don't always understand the subtleties of human interactions.