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15 May 2015, 12:25 pm

I broke up with my sixth girlfriend two days before Valentine's Day of 2015. I miss her still. I wanted a second chance. She blocked me on Facebook. I broke up with her because I was listening to my head and not my heart. I feel sick when I think about being with another woman. I miss her. I think about a lot. I don't know what to do.



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15 May 2015, 4:48 pm

6th :o :cry:



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16 May 2015, 4:19 pm

Sense she blocked you she made it clear that she doesn't want anything to do with you now so the best thing you can do is move on.


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18 May 2015, 9:49 am

Sixth?!?!?! O_____O I am so sorry that happened to you, especially since she no longer wants to be associated with you. If you have difficulties with moving on without her, I suggest seeing a counselor to help you cope with the stress.



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26 May 2015, 6:31 pm

I am. I'm not ready to move on.



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26 May 2015, 6:45 pm

I even gave up dating. I'm done.



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26 May 2015, 6:46 pm

well atleast you had 6 gf's I gave up on dating and life because I never had any.



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26 May 2015, 6:50 pm

It's lonely but easier to live a single life.

I know it's easier said then done but if you can't be with someone
you've got no choice but to move on. Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
If it's real love, two people would feel the same way about each other. You deserve to be loved in return.

if she felt the same way, she would've contacted you by now
I hope you'll heal from this someday and move on

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26 May 2015, 6:51 pm

Anybody thinks this single life is fun. It's a joke and a waste of time for me. Now I'm just gonna live my life alone. I have my family which is great. A lot of the girls I meet anyways are shallow. So who cares.



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26 May 2015, 7:42 pm

Outsider85 wrote:
Anybody thinks this single life is fun. It's a joke and a waste of time for me. Now I'm just gonna live my life alone. I have my family which is great. A lot of the girls I meet anyways are shallow. So who cares.


No it isn't fun the single life but then a lot of couples aren't happy either.
Many people of today, have affairs, sleep around ect, it's rare that two people who marry young, stay devoted to one another for the rest of their lives, doesn't seem to happen anymore unfortunely.
Soulmates seem non-existent.

Dunno what to say, no point resenting all girls just because of bad experiences with some
and theirs no point being with someone for the sake of not wanting to be alone.



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26 May 2015, 7:46 pm

I've met a lot of brats, gold diggers, ones with no self respect and ones that didn't want to work. I meant no disrespect. I'm tired of dating girls. I want to date women and real women. You follow?



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26 May 2015, 7:53 pm

Outsider85 wrote:
I've met a lot of brats, gold diggers, ones with no self respect and ones that didn't want to work. I meant no disrespect. I'm tired of dating girls. I want to date women and real women. You follow?


yeah i follow.

Someday that might change, you just haven't met the one yet.
a lot of men have met women like that whom are horrible, just like a lot of women have met some horrible men

its rare to meet anyone genuine
not many people are that nice, minority of people are ok it's the majority

don't give up hope just yet.
sometimes things happen when least expected.



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26 May 2015, 7:59 pm

I won't have that spark in my heart as I did with my ex. Besides she was better than all the others. I love her still.



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26 May 2015, 8:01 pm

You can either move on from her
or wait around for her

she may come back to you if it was meant to be
or she won't at all.

Truthfully, if she wanted you back, she would've come back to you by now
it's less likely as time moves on, she might of moved on, so you might have to do the same.

No disrespect to you but remember life is short
don't wish your life away.

I'm sorry for your heartache
good luck with the healing process, people have to move on at some point.
It hurts like hell but the pain fades away as years go on

Good luck.



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26 May 2015, 8:23 pm

Life feels more like a prison sentence.



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26 May 2015, 8:34 pm

Not being funny


Seek a counsellor perhaps
as you sound very depressed


i'm not in a position to give any more advice.
sorry

take care