androbot01
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08 Jun 2015, 10:11 pm
08 Jun 2015, 10:30 pm
Just YOLO it and go make a move.
Want to know a secret? I'm not supposed to tell you this but guys actually like it when girls approach them and make the first move.
So what are you waiting for? Go out there and go talk to this dude, for narnia! 
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08 Jun 2015, 10:44 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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09 Jun 2015, 1:05 am
If you were a guy having a crush on supervisor I would tell you it's a very bad idea.
But since...well..it's not the case, I don't think there's a risk unless he's married.
Hypergamy kicking in again! Sorry, I couldn't resist to point to that 
, especially since it's you.
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09 Jun 2015, 7:49 am
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androbot01
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09 Jun 2015, 9:21 am
You are a vital person, Ann. More than you think. I sensed that.
All is not lost!
Thanks
I will leave the first moves to him. It's rare for me to enjoy talking with someone.
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09 Jun 2015, 9:22 am
Aren't instincts too strong?
Awww....
He has more to lose than you; from his perspective, he would be afraid to lose his job/reputation if you happen to not like him back, and you happen to be delusional and mean enough to sue him for an office harassment because of some smile he did after revealing his interest.
He has way more reasons than you to be afraid from revealing interest - because he would be easily put himself in a position where you can accuse him of things, like accusing him of using his authority to force him into some relationship - A romantic relationship attempt from a supervisor with a subordinate can involve thorny legal and employee relations problems.
From your side....well, you have nothing to lose! Well, maybe you might get some awkwardness in case he doesn't like you but that's it.... but rest assure, a typical man won't go to the HR and make a drama out of it nor would broadcast it to the staff in the lunch break.
But if he likes you, then....well....you are the on the right path to get promoted faster.
So who has to reveal interest first in your case? YOU and only you.
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09 Jun 2015, 9:56 am
Too true.
No such luck. It's a transitional work program. After six months I have to get a job in the community.
Yes, but I have to be subtle, not something I'm good at.
The_Face_of_Boo
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09 Jun 2015, 10:00 am
Too true.
Oh....just like that? Finally admitting your female instinct?
That was easier than expected.
I am glad you didn't go this time "We women in Canada are not like that, you Middle-East still have ape instincts hoo hoo, we Canada way past that"
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09 Jun 2015, 10:08 am
Too true.
Oh....just like that? Finally admitting your female instinct?
That was easier than expected.
I am glad you didn't go this time "We women in Canada are not like that, you Middle-East still have ape instincts hoo hoo, we Canada way past that"
I don't think I've ever denied this instinct. These things are pretty ingrained in us. But you make it sound like I'm targeting superior men. I assure you this is not the case. It just happens I enjoy this guy's company.
09 Jun 2015, 10:23 am
The_Face_of_Boo
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09 Jun 2015, 10:26 am
Too true.
Oh....just like that? Finally admitting your female instinct?
That was easier than expected.
I am glad you didn't go this time "We women in Canada are not like that, you Middle-East still have ape instincts hoo hoo, we Canada way past that"
I don't think I've ever denied this instinct. These things are pretty ingrained in us. But you make it sound like I'm targeting superior men. I assure you this is not the case. It just happens I enjoy this guy's company.
You are down to earth and on the same wavelength then.
You are no longer fun to troll, I shally find another lady.
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09 Jun 2015, 10:30 am
Too true.
Oh....just like that? Finally admitting your female instinct?
That was easier than expected.
I am glad you didn't go this time "We women in Canada are not like that, you Middle-East still have ape instincts hoo hoo, we Canada way past that"
I don't think I've ever denied this instinct. These things are pretty ingrained in us. But you make it sound like I'm targeting superior men. I assure you this is not the case. It just happens I enjoy this guy's company.
You are down to earth then.
You are no longer fun, I shall find another lady to troll.
09 Jun 2015, 10:40 am
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