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I'm having a bit of trouble with getting to know and hoping to go out with a girl that i really like,
She's called Jessica Hawkins, she's 14 and I really like her, but i've only had one girlfriend before and she's really popular
and i'm a loser really, has anyone got any tips or anything of help?

Are you friends with her though?

Nope, but i've known her since year seven, and i'm in year nine

Well, I think you should say hello and whatnot, to get acquainted with her, so you two can get to know eachother. So perhaps you should greet her or smile at her when you see her, but from my experience, don't do it obsessively, it freaks people out. I've done that many times.

You are older, so you gain points right there with girls that age. Just walk by, say "hi Jess" and keeping walking. Do that 2 or 3 times, then try just starting a conversation without really flirting. Show her that you know her, just be nice and not say too much, then she will start talking to you in return.

Well, do NT girls mind AS boys, i mean we can be richer more sucessful, but there is a bad side and she does have a boyfriend in year ten, but my sis, who'se 19 told me that those relations never work, i just hope she's right....
Also she's slightly older by about eight months, im only 13

Well, if she has a boyfriend, perhaps you could wait till they break up before asking her out.

That will give me time to get fit anyway, an she's worth anything, even a 2.8 million Bugatti Veyrons

Mr. Ackary. greetings. I am Sir Gamester, resident date doctor, councilor, psych advisor, and what not and you name it to this board.

I can see from your situation that you are in that you do not know what to do.

the fact that you are not even friends with this girl....that initself is a problem which you really don't want to deal with.

Now I'm not saying that I'm against it, but if this girl is one of the more popular girls, is that the only reason you want to date her is because it might enhance your image? If so, then there is nothing more I need to say, because my silence initself is enough to show my distaste for going after a girl cause she be popular.

I actually fancied her before she was popular
and i really can't help it, you can't choose who you love

Uhm..............wrong


choosing someone who could be shallow only relfects that part of your nature initself is shallow.

Mr. Ackary, welcome!
I am Doctor Bourne and I second what Doc Gamester says.

You are not friends with this girl so if you interact if her, she will think that you are a freak and a stalker. If she has a boyfriend and said BF does not like you, then you're a target for them. I'm sure she will be flattered by all the attention you're giving her. NT girls DO see AS boys as targets for manipulation so you better be careful around this girl, especially if she has a large circle of friends. So be careful next time.

-Doc Bourne

I saw this in a movie, so it must work. First flirt a little with her (nothing too obvious). Then piss her boyfirend off, and let him beat you up. She'll be sure to fall for you.

Just talk to her. Make friends Make no move whatsoever to ask her out or anything- JUST FRIENDS. Then, if she is ever going to fall for you, it will happen, and she will let you know. If it doesn't happen, accept it and move on. You'll have made a new friend in the process.

Calendale. SHUT UP.

Esperanza. Yeah. you've got a valid point, right up until you become friends with her, and she asks you if you do like her in that way. If you do, you can't ever admit it, especially if you do like her, but know you aren't the type for her. trust me, this actually more or less happened/is happening to me this school year. sufficive to say I don't think she believes me. I think she thinks that I still like her. which I've told her over and ovah that I don't.

oh well. back on TOPIC.

but like Esper says. just be friends. don't jump the gun. bad idea ever to ever make.