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clairelv
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09 Jun 2015, 1:59 am

maybe it is not a good topic but i just want to know somebody else how to deal with the situation when you meet your old lover ? especially , you loved each other before and even didn't know why you separated ? you met suddenly so many years later and you were so happy at first .but you will feel it is not very right as time goes by . you don't know what's wrong ?
hard to describe the feelings . does anyone has the similar situation ? do you want to say something to me ?

thank you ........



CateJayne
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18 Jun 2015, 4:39 pm

clairelv wrote:
maybe it is not a good topic but i just want to know somebody else how to deal with the situation when you meet your old lover ? especially , you loved each other before and even didn't know why you separated ? you met suddenly so many years later and you were so happy at first .but you will feel it is not very right as time goes by . you don't know what's wrong ?
hard to describe the feelings . does anyone has the similar situation ? do you want to say something to me ?

thank you ........


Say hi, say it's been lovely to see them again (regardless of it is true) and then go talk to somebody else.

You've fulfilled the minimum required by the social contract. Zee end!



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21 Jun 2015, 12:06 am

Try saying this verse from the Hilary Duff song, Play With Fire :arrow:
I cant believe its really you
been so long, you look good
I hear you're doing really well
dont ask me let me tell you
how I've been since when you left
since you left me for dead
finally every tear has dried
I wiped you from my life



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21 Jun 2015, 5:36 pm

For everyone who has difficulties getting over a lover: In the circumstance that he/she is not happy to see you, just pretend you don't know that person and keep going your way.


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