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22 Jun 2015, 8:19 pm

I have a long texting realm. Every time I text, I wait for girls to text me. Now if That's not normal I dont know What is. I sometimes think that No matter if you have a way to talk or difficult, it shouldn't be like a suspicious thing. Now if someone texts to much. It's only if I was under a weird idea It's not What it looks like to be. How do you guys relate to this. You to girls, i like your input.


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22 Jun 2015, 8:33 pm

what do you mean when you say you wait for girls to text you? Do you mean you sit there waiting for them to text you back instead of doing other things?


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22 Jun 2015, 8:52 pm

I do other things. Nevermind Alex.


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22 Jun 2015, 8:53 pm

autismthinker21 wrote:
I do other things. Nevermind Alex.



That sounds normal to me. . .


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22 Jun 2015, 9:02 pm

phone communication is not really worth it anymore.


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22 Jun 2015, 9:05 pm

alex wrote:
autismthinker21 wrote:
I do other things. Nevermind Alex.



That sounds normal to me. . .


i dont wait for girls to text me. if they are interested in talking to me. i guess i'll text, this girl i dont know. it was very strange that i was not the first for her to message back. online dating sites are nothing but a decompatible internet engine.


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22 Jun 2015, 9:09 pm

autismthinker21 wrote:
Every time I text, I wait for girls to text me.

autismthinker21 wrote:
i dont wait for girls to text me.

I'd like to try to help/give input but I'm struggling to understand your posts. Could you rephrase what your questions is? If it's about messaging "rules" like who should message first, how long before you reply, etc., I say forget gender stereotypes and dating games and do what works for you.



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22 Jun 2015, 9:17 pm

i dont feel like they are interested unless they wanna be interested. that's what i meant. i message guys as well. i guess ill keep myself posted on what i am trying to do.


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23 Jun 2015, 10:39 am

Rule 1 for texting: If she never initiates a texting conversation (or call or verbal talk or knocking your door or any type of communication), even after you initiate few times, then this means she is not interested.



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26 Jun 2015, 5:44 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Rule 1 for texting: If she never initiates a texting conversation (or call or verbal talk or knocking your door or any type of communication), even after you initiate few times, then this means she is not interested.


Is this rule the same with Aspie guys? My Aspie friend said he didn't answer because there wasn't a question mark.


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