Thinking I am a weirdo?

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There was this girl who who fancied me in my social circle but I have not really hanged out with her for over a year.

Regurley I would walk/cycle past her house so maybe I could get a chance to bump into her but my mum warned me "she will think your a weirdo if you start hanging out near her house"


So tell me then why might hanging out near her house make her think i am a weirdo? She is going out with one of my old friends.

Because the family might think you are stalking her.

People are scared of stalkers (for good reasons).

Maybe you could contact her by Facebook or something?

There not her biological family. She is living with her boyfriends parents

What are you saying, sir?

You said she might have 'fancied' you but it's been over a year and she has a boyfriend now.

Do you want to talk to her just to be friends again, or do you want more because you can't have that, she's already dating. It's inappropriate to try and date her when she's already in a relationship and yes, it would make you a 'weirdo' to put it light.

If she has a boyfriend and you want to date her, you should steer clear because that is not a good situation to be in. For you or her.
But if you just want to be friends than maybe instead of hanging around her house, you could hang out in places she likes to hang out. That way it's not creepy and it is more coincidental than stalker like.

She takes photos of animals and posts them on deviant art. I am guessing in woodland very near my house.

But she might do it infrequently