How to be romantic with NT loner girl?

Page 1 of 1 [ 3 posts ] 

MonsterCrack
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 1 Jul 2015
Age: 25
Posts: 735
Location: John's Creek, Georgia

07 Jul 2015, 12:01 am

I'm 16, and a guy, my only friend is 17 and a girl.... I've been friends with her for a little over a month....She's NT and I'm autistic... How should I go about flirting with her? I want to at least make her blush...



Aluna
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

User avatar

Joined: 2 Dec 2013
Age: 29
Gender: Female
Posts: 4

07 Jul 2015, 12:05 am

Maybe start with complimenting a physical/mental attribute she has that you find attractive, and see how she responds? Since you've only known her a little over a month I'd say to take it slow and be in touch with how she's feeling, while still expressing yourself and your feelings. I also recommend reaching out and making more friends! I know it can be scary (at least it is for me) but especially with dating it's really important to have more friends than just the person you're seeing.

:D goodluck!



886
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 15 Jan 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,664
Location: SLC, Utah

11 Jul 2015, 7:27 am

You don't have to force anything, just slip flirts in as bad jokes. Some girl I see every day put on make up for the first time, and I just made some stupid joke about how she wanted to look cute for me. Enough to make her blush, enough to not make me feel sick or feel like I'm forcing a flirt. Just subtle things like that work fine. But I mean, my advice could suck because I'm not the kind of person to blurt out hay u hav pretty eyez llozlozlo, and it could play a factor in why I'm still single.


_________________
If Jesus died for my sins, then I should sin as much as possible, so he didn't die for nothing.