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Goodvibetribe_
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13 Aug 2015, 5:02 pm

Hey so I'm on the spectrum and not very social. I'm 18 and going to college. I've had many girlfriends all who are nt. I was wondering if it's good for me to date a social girl to take me out my comfort zone.



kraftiekortie
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13 Aug 2015, 5:20 pm

The best thing to do is to "be yourself."

Just like you did in high school, just date the girls you want to date.

If you were successful in high school, you will be even more successful in college.



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13 Aug 2015, 5:22 pm

Goodvibetribe_ wrote:
Hey so I'm on the spectrum and not very social. I'm 18 and going to college. I've had many girlfriends all who are nt. I was wondering if it's good for me to date a social girl to take me out my comfort zone.


It might be a good idea - especially in college where being social is pretty important.


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