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Kcihtred2
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17 Apr 2007, 12:02 pm

how should i do it? text? to their face? what!! !
PS im in 11th grade and never really have done this much with success...

no success at all!! !



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17 Apr 2007, 12:25 pm

My advice: ask them to a daytime event, as a friend. A group event is even better.

Look around your local area for:

Outdoor concerts?
Earth Day events?
Indoor rock-climbing?
Museum events?
Youth groups?
Hiking / nature groups?

If they are taking the same classes as you, you can ask the person if he/she wants to get together to study or work on a project or homework.

Start small... work on just getting to know the person. Open your ears and try to find out what makes them tick.

;) Good luck!

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17 Apr 2007, 12:26 pm

well i am pretty good friends with her and i have 2 classes with her and her #



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17 Apr 2007, 12:30 pm

depends if they have shown an interest in you....

any of them stare at you when they think you arnt looking?

any of them try to make conversation with you?

if so, then ask if you could talk to them alone for a sec.... and tell them what you feel about them, and ask them out....


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17 Apr 2007, 12:33 pm

the whole story is she iniated it when she first talked to me, from then on it was me iniating mainly... I do catch her staring



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17 Apr 2007, 12:36 pm

Kcihtred2 wrote:
the whole story is she iniated it when she first talked to me, from then on it was me iniating mainly... I do catch her staring



then ask to talk to her aside from anyone, and ask her out....

tell us how it goes... :D , hopefully this thread will end up like Kezzstars thread -:

http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php? ... highlight=

i would give anything to be in your situation, but women aviod me like the plague... lol

good luck for you though... 8)


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17 Apr 2007, 12:43 pm

k i asked her to meet me after class... hopefully she will show...



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17 Apr 2007, 12:50 pm

Kcihtred2 wrote:
k i asked her to meet me after class... hopefully she will show...



when will this be? when will we get an update? :D

ooooohhhhh...love is in the air...., every sight and every sound.....


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17 Apr 2007, 1:15 pm

Buy a young lady a cheap can of strong cider and then say: "My nads ache. Fancy a backscuttle?".

Note: I have no idea whether this works or not.



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17 Apr 2007, 1:37 pm

she didn't show up but i will call after school



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17 Apr 2007, 4:45 pm

Kcihtred2 wrote:
she didn't show up but i will call after school



good.... there might be a good reason she forgot, remember, she doesnt know what it is you want to ask, so she might not consider it important over other priorities...


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17 Apr 2007, 4:51 pm

If she gave you her number, that's a good sign...



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17 Apr 2007, 6:32 pm

Tequila wrote:
Buy a young lady a cheap can of strong cider and then say: "My nads ache. Fancy a backscuttle?".

Note: I have no idea whether this works or not.


It worked! Try it! :P


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17 Apr 2007, 7:50 pm

GoatOnFire wrote:
Tequila wrote:
Buy a young lady a cheap can of strong cider and then say: "My nads ache. Fancy a backscuttle?".

Note: I have no idea whether this works or not.


It worked! Try it! :P


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18 Apr 2007, 10:55 am

i forgot to ask after school and actually i got it from one of her friends



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18 Apr 2007, 10:57 am

Kcihtred2 wrote:
i forgot to ask after school and actually i got it from one of her friends



then dont ring it.....

but remember to talk to her alone today....


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