Lazenca_x wrote:
Hi
I haven't been posting in quite a while. I met a girl 2 years ago. It was a chance encounter as these things tend to be. Then we went our seperate ways. Last year, she showed up at a friends birthday gathering and we started talking again
Long story short, I developed felings for her and we had been messaging each other regularly. Recently, she went to another country for a teaching job for 2 months but when she returned here she didn't let me know she was back. This and other such incidents like the time when she didn't tell me she was considering the teaching position in the first place and several other incidents had led me to face the terrible realisation that I'm not high on her list of priorities/friends. If I was she would have told me these things.
So, here I am realising these things. It's a terrible place to be in.
It's not terrible, it just is. This girl isn't into you, hasn't been for ages, so it's time to move on.
If you wish to continue to sulk and torture yourself over the fact that she's over you, you are entitled to do so, though it's likely to make you miserable.
13 Aug 2015, 2:46 pm
