I decided not to try and get a SO because God gave me AS.

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Every one of my signifgent other relationships have ended bad. Looking back on this, I see its because of my AS that God has given me. I try and work on it but God always likes to screw with me and something happens due to my AS to make it end bad.
So this means that God does not want me to have a SO, thats why he gave me AS, to screw with me. So, if I don't try and find a SO or be in a relationship, God can't screw with me.

Is there a good way for them to end?

Is it any different for NASs?

Is God really that concerned about you?

Why do you keep making these threads?

Because they are feeling a tad bitter, I guess and God is the easiest thing/person/entity to blame.

Let me get this straight. Your religion says God loves you, but your life sucks. So instead of considering that there might be no God, and in fact it's up to luck, the forces of nature, and YOU to direct what happens in your life, you decide... God hates you? You're deluded. Snap out of it.

i can empathize with you to some degree...

after discovering about AS... i have come to realize that some of my beaviors during the rougher parts of some awesome relationships have probably contributed more to their demise thann previously thought...

well, guess what i mean is, if I had known about AS... i might have been able to be more active in "controling" or fixing these negative reactions to my SO...

i never uesd to know why i reacted a certain way... i just did and figured anyone eles would have too (not saying they wouldn't... i have fallen head over heels with some a$$holes)

just feel kinda jipped caues i know now what i could have done SOMETHING to improve the situation... or prevent it from falling to that point

but i don't believe in a single love or single god... so i can't say i fret over it as much as you are.

Well if avoiding relationships is your intention, then your on the right track. Because self loathing pitty-parties are not very attractive.

I have NEVER said I thought God loves me. I don't think, I KNOW God hates me. god has always screwed with me. God is ultimatly responsable for things, there is no free will.

Your life will get much better when you accept that God doesn't exist.

The image of god was designed by man to manipulate the minds of NTs not Aspies. Do you really want to believe in God?

KenM, look on the bright side. At least you have had a significant other before. I'm 20 and have never had one, and I f-cking hate it. There are people out there who have it worse.

Even though he brought religion into this which I am sure is annoying to some of you you shouldn't hit so hard on it. My life would end if I ever accepted that God doesn't exist. That would mean that there is no justice. I would then proceed to kill everyone who has ever wronged me and then kill myself so that I wouldn't have to face the consequences. I truly hate my life and wish it would end, if there's no reward at the end for hanging on, then screw it.

True.

I don't think god is real, there's too much unexplained and evil in the world for a god to exist, i don't mind a few gods, just not one, and about AS, i suppose its different for different people, I love mine personally, a good ticket to a good life, but yeah, at least you have had a GF, i only had one, which is ok, but shes a b***h

I was going to say that!!

Excellent! Someone who has my world view. Ok, look, this bastard is powerful and all that crap - it's time to show Him who's boss though. Start hunting him down, and foiling his plans. And the first one is to throw away this pity party. It's falling right into His plan. You are missing just how devious this thing can be. Your internal needs can overwhelm this weak construct. Take faith and learn to defeat it, or go down in flames trying.

Your religion DOESN'T say that God loves you?