What kind of relationship are you looking for?

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What kind of relationship are you looking for? (Check all that apply)
I'm looking for a relationship. Bf and gf traditional stuff. 30%  30%  [ 29 ]
Hit it for one time one night no feelings attached. 5%  5%  [ 5 ]
I want casual sex bro 7%  7%  [ 7 ]
Friends with benefits. You're friends with someone but you f**k as well. 12%  12%  [ 12 ]
I'd be down for a long distance relationship. 9%  9%  [ 9 ]
I'd be down for an open relationship 8%  8%  [ 8 ]
I'd be down for 3 way relationship 3%  3%  [ 3 ]
I'd be down for dating an alien cyborg 9%  9%  [ 9 ]
I'd be down for a threesome 4%  4%  [ 4 ]
I'd be down for gangbang 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
I wanna make babies. 3%  3%  [ 3 ]
Darkphantomx1 sucks! 9%  9%  [ 9 ]
Total votes : 98

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23 Dec 2015, 2:42 pm

What kind of relationship are you looking for?


Are you into casual sex or do you actually want a relationship?



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23 Dec 2015, 10:02 pm

I've done the long-distance thing with all 3 of my girlfriends but I rather do the more traditional boyfriend & girlfriend type stuff & I have that type of relationship with my current girlfriend sense we moved in together. I would be open to a 3way relationship thou only if it was with my current girlfriend & the iCarly star, Miranda Cosgrove :hic:


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23 Dec 2015, 10:15 pm

I know what I'm about to say is absolutely laughable, but ...

I'd like to have children, so, at this point, my priority in the relationship department is to a find the woman who would be their mother. Unfortunately, I'd have to become a free man in the full sense of both words first, and the odds are extremely daunting. Only a fool would bet on my success, especially if I am to do it in time to have children. My failure is essentially guaranteed, because I have no idea what to do and I'm getting farther and farther from my goals rather than closer to them. I'm willing to sacrifice anything, but I don't know what to sacrifice it on, and I'm sure nothing would be enough.


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23 Dec 2015, 10:37 pm

darkfatomx1 sux



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23 Dec 2015, 11:25 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
I know what I'm about to say is absolutely laughable, but ...

I'd like to have children, so, at this point, my priority in the relationship department is to a find the woman who would be their mother. Unfortunately, I'd have to become a free man in the full sense of both words first, and the odds are extremely daunting. Only a fool would bet on my success, especially if I am to do it in time to have children. My failure is essentially guaranteed, because I have no idea what to do and I'm getting farther and farther from my goals rather than closer to them. I'm willing to sacrifice anything, but I don't know what to sacrifice it on, and I'm sure nothing would be enough.

start asking girls out. can't tell you how many times i was turned down after asking someone out. i dated about 100 guys before my husband and i clicked.



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24 Dec 2015, 1:05 pm

I honestly have no idea exactly what I want to be honest.

Yeah I do want a girlfriend believe it or not.

But i'd also be down to just f**k.


I'd be down for a threesome as long as it's 2 girls and me. Haha. But I can already tell you this isn't going to happen.



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24 Dec 2015, 5:17 pm

Ehhh, the traditional girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is more or less what I'm looking for, but I wouldn't be adverse to a one-night stand.

I wouldn't do a threesome unless they were both girls I'm attracted to, but I can see a hundred and one reasons why that probably won't happen, and it probably wouldn't be fair on the women involved anyway.

I'd only ever be down with polyamory as a short-term thing, and only if I was able to be with a similar amount of partners as my partner. Polyamory just doesn't seem sustainable to me.

I don't think I'd do an open relationship, because I'd be too afraid of being kicked to the kerb when my partner found someone else.

And I think long distance relationships over the internet create more problems than they solve. Flirting is as far as I'll go online if they don't live near me.



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25 Dec 2015, 11:38 am

While I voted in the poll, my ideal "relationship" wasn't there. It's escort services.

I hire an escort for an hour, once every few months on average, except when I'm in relationship (it would be redundant, not to mention cheating). It's simple, straightforward, and most importantly, honest. I get to pick and choose what kind of woman I want to be with, whatever strikes my fancy: feisty or sweet, tall or short, full-figured or petite, etc. I've been hiring escorts this way since I was 22, excluding dormancy periods when I was in relationships.

It's come to a point where escorts in my city, who also have been practicing for a long time, recommend me to each other, and even respond to my comments on their blogs. Mainly due to my punctuality and discretion when scheduling to meet with them. I've had times where I'd show up for my session, and she'd have heard of me.



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25 Dec 2015, 8:01 pm

Nothing too serious for a good while, but stronger than casual sex or friends with benefits. I chose open relationship as it fits my preferences best at the moment. I miss romantic rather than physical intimacy (though I'm not adverse to the latter, so I don't really care if someone I sleeps around.



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25 Dec 2015, 8:51 pm

I guess "Open Relationship" is closest one that qualifies with what I'm wanting.

If I'm honest with myself, I'm really looking for someone (anything?) to fill the void in my heart/soul.

To fix that part of me that broke all those years ago...


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25 Dec 2015, 9:41 pm

I'd be fine with an FwB or LDR.



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26 Dec 2015, 3:43 am

I want a girlfriend but i'm not looking to get married or settle down yet because due to my limited experience.



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26 Dec 2015, 11:35 pm

I would like either a traditional relationship or an LDR. I wouldn't want to rush into either one though until I felt like I could trust them. I just know some people just want to be in a relationship to stop feeling lonely even if they don't really like who they are with.



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27 Dec 2015, 1:56 am

I want a boyfriend, but I don't want to get married.



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27 Dec 2015, 2:16 am

I wouldn't mind getting married but the reason me & my girlfriend haven't is cuz we're both disabled & it would screw up her benefits. There's some debt that needs to be paid off & other things that should happen 1st.


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27 Dec 2015, 2:58 am

nick007 wrote:
I wouldn't mind getting married but the reason me & my girlfriend haven't is cuz we're both disabled & it would screw up her benefits. There's some debt that needs to be paid off & other things that should happen 1st.


You are lucky that you have someone.