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CivilSam
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17 Sep 2015, 10:53 pm

Does anyone have any advice for being Autistic and dating? I've been out of the game of dating for 10 years and now I have to get back in. I tried a site like OKCupid but no one ever responds. Also, has dating really become nothing more than internet dating? Any advice would be welcomed.


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18 Sep 2015, 7:44 am

I have found internet dating to be not my thing. Though, more and more I'm finding I'm the exception, not the rule.

There is a whole sub-forum on dating and love here that has a lot of advise on various topics regarding dating on the spectrum.

Best of luck to you :heart:



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18 Sep 2015, 5:15 pm

I realize it's a no win situation for myself so I don't want to give any advice, especially since guy's without ASD are having trouble because dating because there's so much horny men and few single women out there, it will be twice as hard for aspies to find a date in general unless you're a female..

Right now I'm focusing on getting rich and that way I could have most of what life has to offer at least even if I don't ever get married I won't care at that point.



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23 Sep 2015, 2:57 am

Moved from General Autism Discussion.



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23 Sep 2015, 8:25 am

BrainPower101 wrote:
because there's so much horny men and few single women out there

Considering there are roughly the same amount of men as women and polygamy is not tolerated in our society, this cannot actually be true. The fact is there a plenty of lonely girls asking for guys to ask them out, but the guys always go for the hot girls.


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24 Sep 2015, 12:31 am

You could try posting about things on forums like this one alot & mention what you want in a partner, have to offer a partner & how you are within a relationship alot. That's how I got the 3 girlfriends I had. I met the 2nd & current on this forum.


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24 Sep 2015, 1:10 am

nick007 wrote:
You could try posting about things on forums like this one alot & mention what you want in a partner, have to offer a partner & how you are within a relationship alot. That's how I got the 3 girlfriends I had. I met the 2nd & current on this forum.


Thanks, I might give that a try.


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