Guys only want one thing

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I know that's a generalization, but it's how I feel a lot of the time. Even the nice sensitive type guys at my college all seem to be guided by their desire for sex. Either that or it's just me not understanding the neurotypical process. I'll try to start a decent conversation with a guy, and it goes one of two ways. The first way is they'll casually nod along to anything I say and then try to touch me, or they'll initiate a conversation with me and get put off by my response. I'm not just interested in getting laid, I want real conversation and someone who "gets" me. The one guy who seems to have the patience for me doesn't actually flirt, which is a shame because he is one of the only guy's I would allow to do it.
I feel like I'm in a different world then everyone else I feel like I live in a world where everyone is out for themselves and no one has the kind of kindness that you see in the corny movies.

I'm not sure where to start. Ok most heterosexual guys DO want sex it's why they talk to women MOST of the time. Some guys don't want to have sex with you but at the same time they probably won't talk to you. Many people have difficulty being just friends with the opposite sex but it isn't impossible. As for the one guy you say you would allow, do you like him? If so maybe send some signals to indicate this. Maybe it will mess up a friendship but IMO it's better not to wait if you do like him. If not then don't let him that's a very bad idea. As for finding male friends who are just friends try going out and doing hobbies with groups.

Eh... I don't know what to tell you. For the one guy that you want to flirt with you, flirt with him and/or throw him some signals, or just tell him you like him.

Good advice ty

Just tell him the truth then.

There are more than 7,000,000,000 people, how do you think that many people got made?
Only half of them are men so it IS just barely possible that women might occasionally like sex too. It didn't ALL happen by rape.
Apparently women also like it so much that there are billions of our species spread all over this planet.

This is as offensive as someone saying, "Women only want money."

My girlfriend is actually trying to get me to sleep with her in a more intimate manner...so far I wont.
Its a bit of a role reversal

In response to the above when invaders would come they'd kill all the able bodied men rape the women and leave. This way they spread their seed and the population does in fact grow

Im a guy that's not the only thing I want, although I do like it and enjoy it of course I also want money which I earn by working, I also want a nice car a Wii-U a new TV a PS4 and watch more Anime! I also want to eat some Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese and Korean food as well.

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It's ironic that you claim all guys all want one thing yet the guy you want doesn't seem only want that one thing.

What about to approach the guy you like? The horniest guys are always more likely to make the first move.

too much testosterone here. guys want more, they just think about that one thing ALOT!! ! it is a common truth that can never be dissolved. Especially in the presence of a beautiful women. go get what you want, sounds to me like you shouldn't have much of a problem. set your standards high, so you can crash, and do it again.

too much testosterone here. guys want more, they just think about that one thing ALOT!! ! it is a common truth that can never be dissolved. Especially in the presence of a beautiful women. go get what you want, sounds to me like you shouldn't have much of a problem. set your standards high, so you can crash, and do it again.