Did I ruin my chances with this awkward joke?

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MonsterCrack
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04 Nov 2015, 7:55 pm

At my Turkish cultural center, some girl (let's call her girl a) was shouting, "Melike wants to talk to you!! !" and melike was trying to shush her.... i eventually had a conversation with them, but then I think I ruined it by saying, "I know why you guys called me here.... you like my beard!" and then they looked uncomfortable, and we talked a little more, than melike's other friend (let's call her girl b) said they wanted to talk in private (girl b doesn't like me) and later when I asked girl b if I could hang out with them, she made up the lame excuse that they can't talk to me because their religious parents won't let them talk to boys.... i laughed it off, and she said, "it's not funny, it's religion," I think she was lying, because my beard joke was so unbelievably awkward....what should I do? should I apologize? should i explain to them i have autism? should I talk to them as if nothing happened? should I give up on her? i want to know, because i really like melike.....



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04 Nov 2015, 8:10 pm

I think that either (1) the time for you to act has passed, or that (2) one of the girls was just messing with you at the other girl's expense, or (3) both.


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