Top 10 Characteristics I Would Love In My Dream Woman

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Great list.

I agree with everything on your list except if it were my list I'd change #2.

With #2. Honesty Trust and loyalty -- Perhaps it's because every relationship but one I have ever been in my girlfriend and even my ex-wife has cheated on me with another guy and that's how every relationship ended but one. The other one ended was due to long distance. So I find Honesty, Trust and loyalty to be a number one priority.

Also another thing that would be different about my list is that Morgan Webb from the show X-Play is my favorite nerd/geek girl of all time, not Olivia Munn.

If you eventually meet the woman that fits all of those to a tea, do be a good sport and ask her if she has a sister.

What's wrong with #2?

Uh, that's basically a detailed reminder of why I'm nowhere near worthy of a relationship with anybody at all, so maybe my disagreement is motivated by a sour-grapes feeling. However,

10) I don't have a well-defined taste in music, simply because I lack exposure to both music and life. Therefore, any tastes she had would probably be fine with me, unless it were more like noise than music or it incited gratuitous violence. Of course, this would probably mean to her that I'm boring and a wimp, so I wouldn't expect to have a chance with her at this point.

9) I've never had any friends, and my relationship with my family isn't all that great (in fact, it feels suffocating to me), so I can't demand anything from her in this regard, and it's undoubtedly another strike against me. Besides, I'm an ungrateful bastard, because I owe my parents much more than a normal, sane and respectable son would, so I don't really have a moral right to want to distance myself from them.

Better not get started on eye, hair or skin colors. Fortunately, there are plenty of women whose looks I've really liked with all combinations (though I haven't met any with very dark skin and very light hair and eyes, or vice-versa).

7) Well, my weaknesses should really turn her off. If they don't, this will probably mean she is defective, too (though likely not as much as me by a long shot), rather than that I'm actually good enough.

6) Of course there are nerdy and sexy women. The moment you see them, you know that, unlike the vast majority of the male nerds they hang out with, they can and do have rich and fulfilling sex lives and relationships. If one were to befriend me, it'd be clear from the get-go that she's only interested in doing nerdy stuff with me and wouldn't touch me with a ten-foot pole as far as anything else in life is concerned, much like my classmates were only interested in me for help with school-related stuff.

5) No problem here, unless she wanted me to give up my interests for her own.

4) I like intelligence, too, but, if she's intelligent, she'll get bored really quickly with me. Before leaving me for good, she may take some pleasure playing nasty tricks on me. It's the way I'm used to seeing people prove how much smarter than me they are, and, since I was taught to value intelligence a lot, it commands respect to me---it feels like I deserve it for not being smart enough, even though I know others would respond by breaking a bone or two of mine if I tried to "outsmart" them in a similar fashion. She'll probably turn out to have just pretended to fall in love with me to get and share some good, hearty laughs at my expense, all the while going out and having sex with someone else (hence another potential bone breaker or stabber).

3) I like humor, too, but, as already said, I expect to be the butt of every joke, and in physically nasty ways.

2) Well, I don't like seeing cute female feet and legs wilfully tortured with high heels. I empirically know this will sound shallow (though I don't really understand why), but, if you're doing it to please me, better take off your shoes and cuddle with me, letting your legs rest on top of mine, for example.

1) With this I agree wholeheartedly. Of course, she'd surely have much better candidates than me to share the rest of her life with.

Last edited by Spiderpig on 04 Mar 2016, 1:47 am, edited 1 time in total.

Aww...I don't have all the characteristics

Number one: Home cooking.

You might not have all these characteristics but it's okay. These are just one person's idea, and not every man in the world's view of a perfect or ideal woman. Somewhere, someone is out there waiting to meet you and, just the way you are now will be perfect for him. You just have to cross paths.

I think I only agree to one of the characteristics (#4 about intelligence), so I don't think you need to worry.

I have my own list:

1. Persistent
2. Always tries to be nice to people (high empathy)
3. Forms strong attachments with obsessive thoughts
4. Low dependency (at least after the initial phase)
5. Shy
6. Asexual
7. Polyamory
8. Dislikes dating
9. Intelligent
10. Creative