EaglesRNo1 wrote:
I'm a sophomore right now, still another year to go before prom. But my biggest fear about junior and senior years, even more than not getting straight A's, is that I won't be able to get a prom date. This one senior at my school who's kind of geeky (not sure if he has any kind of roblems) has posted a couple notes on facebook recently about how he can't get a prom date. He said he's tried extremely hard and has been turned down by 19 girls. I don't think "being myself" would get me a prom date since that would mean me being quiet and afraid to ask out of fear of rejection. What are your experiences with asking someone to the prom?
To avoid this conundrum I decided not to go to the prom at all. Furthermore, the idea of attending a dance was not attractive to me. I'd never even been on a date at the time.
So, if I were you I'd just opt out and save yourself the hassle, the cost, the awkwardness, and the negative emotions. But, if you're dead-set on going then you'll have to ask out a ton of girls and increase your odds through numbers. Ask out unpopular girls also.