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Berzerker777
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12 Dec 2015, 6:20 am

Now, I'm pretty confident in my ability to pitch woo. I even got a girlfriend once! The problem is, that I'm at a loss as to where to go meet girls. So, what's a good place for an aspie to go "Pick up chicks"?


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13 Dec 2015, 2:30 am

You can meet people anywhere. That being said, the best thing to do, is to go out and do what you love...you'll have the best chance of meeting like minded people there.



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13 Dec 2015, 3:41 am

Berzerker777 wrote:
So, what's a good place for an aspie to go "Pick up chicks"?


Facebook.

I recommend having two accounts. One for your family and friends.

The other one for the thousands of women you'll quickly accumulate, though you'll likely only sleep with a few hundred of them, assuming that's something you're interested in of course.


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14 Dec 2015, 3:33 am

Aight, thanks, you guys. That was moderately helpful.


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15 Dec 2015, 4:12 am

At your age you should concentrate on your studies and build a future for yourself, not pick up chicks.



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15 Dec 2015, 5:08 pm

Idealist wrote:
Berzerker777 wrote:
So, what's a good place for an aspie to go "Pick up chicks"?


Facebook.

I recommend having two accounts. One for your family and friends.

The other one for the thousands of women you'll quickly accumulate, though you'll likely only sleep with a few hundred of them, assuming that's something you're interested in of course.


Every girl I know who has had unsolicited friend requests or messages has either ignored them or been totally digusted.
I seriously do not know what kind, bar prostitutes and wannabe celebrities would just add random guys.



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15 Dec 2015, 5:26 pm

Is this obsession with studying an American thing? Or is it just on the forum
Flavio Briatore must be the worst example going. He's a salesman and a crook. I doubt he's studied a day in his life
As you can probably tell, neither have I....



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15 Dec 2015, 8:33 pm

Kyle Katarn wrote:
At your age you should concentrate on your studies and build a future for yourself, not pick up chicks.


What, so I can get some dead-end job in a cubicle and be a cog in the machine? No thank you.


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16 Dec 2015, 6:35 pm

Believe me, women are into educated guys. Now if u have a dog or puppy I say go to a dog park. If you're into comics find the nearest comic book store. Whatever your interest is: search, directions, speak, befriend, date. I would say go to nightclubs, but most girls there are too conceited and/or fake. They look clean on the outside, but dirty on the inside. Always go for the girl that actually wants to know you.



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16 Dec 2015, 7:21 pm

You can literally meet girls anywhere.


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16 Dec 2015, 7:37 pm

1. College. If you're going off to college and living the college experience, you can meet women there. And get one of them to Netflix and Chill. You're 18 years old and your sex drive is only really starting to take off.

2. Work. If you work at a restaurant, you can meet women from there. Probably not a lot of options though. And it all depends on where you work.

3. Tinder. Tinder is an online dating app that almost all 20 something year olds know about and a ton of people are using it. I would totally recommend it because there's so many women using it and you never know what's going to happen. Although I would only recommend Tinder if you're decent looking. If you're fat and plain looking, then it probably isn't for you.

Also the fact you're an 18 year old male probably means that the only girls who will realistically match with you are 18 or 19 years old because not a lot of women are into men a couple years younger.



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16 Dec 2015, 7:43 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
1. College. If you're going off to college and living the college experience, you can meet women there. And get one of them to Netflix and Chill. You're 18 years old and your sex drive is only really starting to take off.

2. Work. If you work at a restaurant, you can meet women from there. Probably not a lot of options though. And it all depends on where you work.

3. Tinder. Tinder is an online dating app that almost all 20 something year olds know about and a ton of people are using it. I would totally recommend it because there's so many women using it and you never know what's going to happen. Although I would only recommend Tinder if you're decent looking. If you're fat and plain looking, then it probably isn't for you.

Also the fact you're an 18 year old male probably means that the only girls who will realistically match with you are 18 or 19 years old because not a lot of women are into men a couple years younger.
4. Church. There is a lot of repressed sexuality in most churches. There are also a lot of young, single women who would be interested in dating a man who at least pretends to be interested in becoming more "spiritual". Just be aware that once you actually join her church, she may lose interest in you, and seek out another non-believer with whom to engage in what's commonly referred to as "missionary dating".


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16 Dec 2015, 8:20 pm

Don't bother with dating sites. Most require a credit card to have full access.

You can meet girls anywhere you want.


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16 Dec 2015, 8:25 pm

Really? Anywhere?
Why didn't I find one under the sofa yet? Any tips? :mrgreen:
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16 Dec 2015, 9:38 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Don't bother with dating sites. Most require a credit card to have full access.

You can meet girls anywhere you want.


tinder, okcupid, bumble, etc are all free


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