Crushes are Hard!!

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04 Feb 2016, 9:59 pm

I wish I have friends in my city so I can talk to them. I want to get over my crush!! This is tooooo much for me, it's hard having a crush.

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04 Feb 2016, 10:08 pm

I agree, it's so many intense emotions.

What if they're in a relationship? What if they like someone else? What if they don't like me back? Should I tell him/her I like them? And if you get rejected, it's the worst f*****g feelings in the world.

When I had a huge crush on this one girl, I got very bipolar. I'd go from being incredibly happy and elated to feeling intense anger and sadness. She was the only thing I had on my mind, and when she was interacting with another guy, I nearly lost it.

I can't help it, all these raging hormones. I'm at my peak in terms of wanting to f**k but nowhere close to being at my peak in terms of interacting and being good with women. No wonder i'm so goddamn bitter, i'm lonely, horny, and suck with women. A terrible combination to have.

I swear i'm gonna f*****g lose it, the lonliness is overwhelming me. I can only withstand so much.

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04 Feb 2016, 10:50 pm

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I hope you find a woman, you can still get one, you are very young.

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04 Feb 2016, 11:00 pm

the cartoon below expresses what I have experienced-

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04 Feb 2016, 11:59 pm

I know 1st hand that crushes can be very difficult, especially when you know you have no chance with the person & there's noone you can talk to offline about it. Posting on forums helps some but it mostly helps me indulge in it by dwelling on the idea that I can be with them.

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05 Feb 2016, 12:39 am

I been reading about guys, this guy I have a crush on is giving me alot of signs that he is interested in me. But the coffee house is being remodeled, they said it will be finished in 7 days, but it's not finish, it will be 11-13 days. I have this bad feeling he will forget me & move on to the next woman.

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05 Feb 2016, 12:41 am

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05 Feb 2016, 12:43 am

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why not ask him if you can go to a museum or something like that, with you? sometimes one has to be a bit forward in order to not let them slip away. can't hurt.

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05 Feb 2016, 12:54 am

I accidentally made 2 of the same post, I can't delete one of them.

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05 Feb 2016, 12:57 am

auntblabby wrote:

Kitty4670 wrote:

why not ask him if you can go to a museum or something like that, with you? sometimes one has to be a bit forward in order to not let them slip away. can't hurt.

I don't know where he is.

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05 Feb 2016, 1:02 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

Kitty4670 wrote:

why not ask him if you can go to a museum or something like that, with you? sometimes one has to be a bit forward in order to not let them slip away. can't hurt.

I don't know where he is.

you don't have any of his contact info? [email, phone #, FB PM or ???]

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05 Feb 2016, 5:58 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

I wish I have friends in my city so I can talk to them. I want to get over my crush!! This is tooooo much for me, it's hard having a crush.

Hard, but enjoyable (at least for me). Once I get one, I typically don't want to get over it in a long time. :mrgreen:

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05 Feb 2016, 5:59 am

auntblabby wrote:

Kitty4670 wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

Kitty4670 wrote:

why not ask him if you can go to a museum or something like that, with you? sometimes one has to be a bit forward in order to not let them slip away. can't hurt.

I don't know where he is.

you don't have any of his contact info? [email, phone #, FB PM or ???]

It's more of an interesting game when you don't have any of those. Having a way to make contact makes it less interesting and doesn't challenge your imagination as much. :wink:

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05 Feb 2016, 2:02 pm

but a far riskier "game" as well. interpersonal relationships should IMHO NOT be about gamesmanship but something far better.

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06 Feb 2016, 4:33 am

I like it that it's Saturday & the coffee house will be reopened next week, the owner told me that it will be Tuesday or Wednesday, wait... was it Monday or Tuesday, I forgot :oops: :roll:

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06 Feb 2016, 12:58 pm

auntblabby wrote:

but a far riskier "game" as well. interpersonal relationships should IMHO NOT be about gamesmanship but something far better.

Perhaps, but I was talking about the initial phase when you don't know the other person.

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